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Forum: Financial Issues 03-09-2018, 08:47 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
Oops, no, I meant to say that was roughly my...

Oops, no, I meant to say that was roughly my proportionate share for expenses. I should be able to have some say when I pay the bulk of expenses.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 04:59 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
Doesnít it make me look like I canít co parent if...

Doesnít it make me look like I canít co parent if I ignore her?
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 04:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
My income is 80% more than hers...she makes...

My income is 80% more than hers...she makes $10,000 a year on disability and has our kids in high end sports.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 04:10 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
Itís adjourned sine die...so I have registered...

Itís adjourned sine die...so I have registered with MEP in the mean time, they wonít enforce anything anyways. We can either come to an agreement now based on the agreements we have made, or she can...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 03:56 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
I canít because she has already filed a motion. ...

I canít because she has already filed a motion. I made an offer to settle with a budget for sports...it was a no go!
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 02:51 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
She is saying that I have used this clause to...

She is saying that I have used this clause to avoid payment of expenses. Expenses she incurs without any notice. How am I supposed to provide consent if I am not aware prior to their occurance?
...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 11:15 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
She is trying to have that clause removed. She...

She is trying to have that clause removed. She doesnít want my consent for anything and is fighting this hard.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 10:51 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
So far all our order says is we will share...

So far all our order says is we will share sections 7 in proportion and that reasonable notice and consent must be obtained for any and all expenses. If reasonable notice is not provided and consent...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-08-2018, 10:15 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 651
Posted By Tandem80
S7 expenses whatís in your order?

Looking for any advice and tips for what should be listed in our order for section 7 expenses now that I have registered with MEP?

What do you wish you had and had not listed?

Is there a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2018, 11:26 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 934
Posted By Tandem80
I have actually been wondering about this. I am...

I have actually been wondering about this. I am the respondent and have just filed, so I will be receiving a reply that will be the last word. She likes to have the last word. Always. I hope my...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-21-2018, 08:23 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 721
Posted By Tandem80
There is case law that does include the Child Tax...

There is case law that does include the Child Tax in the recipients income for the determination of proportions for section 7 expenses.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-31-2018, 08:39 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 395
Posted By Tandem80
Maintenance enforcement program question

The application asks for an authorized bank withdrawal form.

I do not want to have automatic bank withdrawals nor do I want to provide my banking information.

It states on the Alberta...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2017, 03:52 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 314
Posted By Tandem80
Filing Consent Order questiin

Do you include disclosure if you've come to your own terms in the amount of support paid?

Like agreeing to adjust yearly according to yearly income.

Just wondering if disclosure is required...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-24-2017, 06:38 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 2,132
Posted By Tandem80
Same situation here. Kids off dec 22-Jan 7. ...

Same situation here. Kids off dec 22-Jan 7. Mother is saying my half starts Jan 1. In the past 10 yrs we have deviated and she brought them to me dec 25 so kids were with us both. 2 weeks ago...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-11-2017, 03:39 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
I'm not sure what that is? We keep adjourning...

I'm not sure what that is? We keep adjourning court to come to an agreement if that isn't going to happen we have composed a response to her affidavit....which we will file anyways we are just...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 11:24 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
So should I just stop hanging on to my response...

So should I just stop hanging on to my response and file it? 6 months have passed of back and forth on the proposals and still nothing.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 11:18 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
Just a helpless situation now. She wants to cut...

Just a helpless situation now. She wants to cut back my weekends so they can attend their sports. I had no say. This is how she punishes me. She knows I value every second I get with the kids.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 11:16 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
The kids have told me over and over they are more...

The kids have told me over and over they are more than happy to come see me and miss their sporting activities. When they get older and are not under their mother control (making them feel bad...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 11:03 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
Oh trust me my affidavit says just that and more....

Oh trust me my affidavit says just that and more. we have been hanging in to it in hopes of coming to a settlement but I am at the pint I'm ready to tell my lawyer to file it so her and her lawyer...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 11:00 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
She is devious though she knew eventually having...

She is devious though she knew eventually having the kids so busy in activities they will be able to decide when they are 12 if they want to come see me or go to their activities. I didn't want to...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 10:57 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
Yes she filed a motion for the sports. There was...

Yes she filed a motion for the sports. There was a pike of receipts I never knew existed. It's mainly her wanting money, because her affidavit never said anything about trying to force me to take...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 10:40 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
Maybe it is time to file the response for my ex...

Maybe it is time to file the response for my ex and her lawyer to see that my affidavit and proof contradicts every lie stated in hers..maybe then we can get an unreasonable person to be reasonable.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 10:37 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
I thought "without prejudice" means they can't...

I thought "without prejudice" means they can't use settlement offers in court?

I have never agreed to the specific sport at hand. And I have proof of that in my responding affidavit. I am only...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 09:57 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
Would a judge actually not make me pay when I...

Would a judge actually not make me pay when I have not been given notice and asked consent? She states I keep refusing but I have not been asked. I can't see a judge actually asking her to prove...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2017, 09:49 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,477
Posted By Tandem80
They are drafting a consent order and are putting...

They are drafting a consent order and are putting a provision in there about me by being able to adjust support if I lose my job. I'm perfectly fine adjusting yearly that is certainly not an issue. ...
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