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iona6656 05-13-2019 10:37 AM

If your parents are not in the position to ignore these calls- then this IS on you.

Can you change their number? Have your lawyer write a polite but strongly worded letter to the party contacting your parents saying "cut it out- or we're going to the police for harassment".

What do your parents know of the situation? what have you talked to them about?

I feel your pain- I brought the entirety of my shitty and dangerous situation with my ex to my parents home. They've had to deal with safety plans, criminal proceedings, etc etc...I talk to them about it though and you know, apologize profusely- and let them vent. A lot of time- people who are on the perimeter of a high conflict divorce- they get hit by the shrapnel. They're pissed about being put in the situation- and they need an outlet to vent. It's a lot that we ask of these people.

standing on the sidelines 05-13-2019 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by iona6656 (Post 235516)
If your parents are not in the position to ignore these calls- then this IS on you.

Can you change their number? Have your lawyer write a polite but strongly worded letter to the party contacting your parents saying "cut it out- or we're going to the police for harassment".

What do your parents know of the situation? what have you talked to them about?

I feel your pain- I brought the entirety of my shitty and dangerous situation with my ex to my parents home. They've had to deal with safety plans, criminal proceedings, etc etc...I talk to them about it though and you know, apologize profusely- and let them vent. A lot of time- people who are on the perimeter of a high conflict divorce- they get hit by the shrapnel. They're pissed about being put in the situation- and they need an outlet to vent. It's a lot that we ask of these people.

I respectfully disagree. Her parents are in the position to ignore the calls. Once the person starts talking crap they can hang up. One has to wonder why they would listen to what this person has to say.

iona6656 05-14-2019 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by standing on the sidelines (Post 235522)
I respectfully disagree. Her parents are in the position to ignore the calls. Once the person starts talking crap they can hang up. One has to wonder why they would listen to what this person has to say.

Well. As she mentioned- her parents are older. And as I said- when you bring a bag of poop to your family's steps because of a high-conflict divorce...I do think you have a responsibility to deal with some of the fall out.


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