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newtothis2011 10-10-2019 02:44 PM

FRO closed and now open again
 
closed in april due to schooling ending , no proof of this attending or continued schooling - no grades - it was a 2yr course
21yr old kid
registration shows 17-19 - not for 2020

Now FRO says its open again and we need to pay since april , she lied and said no letter ever received by them and therefore she didn't responded ..what a huge lie
would she not wonder why she wasn't paid
pretty sure we need to go to court , this doesn't make sense and she is grasping for money , the child isnt in school
unfortunately she needs to release with FRO until than he has no choice but pay again and arrears which in no fault of this own


court is best , even if self represented

why the system works against paying people as well , makes no sense , any thoughts on court ? and getting this on own
Can get a lawyer

rockscan 10-10-2019 02:57 PM

He needs to file a motion to change to terminate support. FRO will reach out to the other parent but they can lie.

Does the agreement say child support ends at age 21? If it does then he needs to have FRO look at the agreement. Normally when you make them read it on the phone they give an answer.

If he is under 21 and back in school then yes he does have to pay again.

newtothis2011 10-10-2019 03:23 PM

clearly believe he isnt in school , requested grades and no answer , why would she wait 6months and lie and say she never got the papers , yet we did , and not wonder why payment wasn't being made , all to fishy
need to go to court get the real answer
clearly someone isnt be honest and making it work for her , and now arrears for 5months ,
not fair
I dont think a judge would like this behavior

now she threatens garnish , when he always paid on time and every month

It ends at 21 but in school full time , child turns 21 early next year

Berner_Faith 10-10-2019 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by newtothis2011 (Post 238723)
clearly believe he isnt in school , requested grades and no answer , why would she wait 6months and lie and say she never got the papers , yet we did , and not wonder why payment wasn't being made , all to fishy

need to go to court get the real answer

clearly someone isnt be honest and making it work for her , and now arrears for 5months ,

not fair

I dont think a judge would like this behavior



now she threatens garnish , when he always paid on time and every month



It ends at 21 but in school full time , child turns 21 early next year



You just said the same thing as your first post. You need to file a motion to change to end support. Do that ASAP... FRO can only enforce orders and so if your order states you pay until 21, then you pay until 21... its not hard for them to fake letters from schools


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rockscan 10-10-2019 05:26 PM

Youre not making sense.

You have an order for support until they are 21. Kid is not 21 yet. Kid was in school until April and then went back last month. You DO owe support for April to now because kid went back to school.

newtothis2011 10-10-2019 05:32 PM

yes its a repeat and a lawyer will be the next step and than court , done with this situation sadly , no issues paying ever have and clearly after never missing a payment why would someone start now after over 20yrs ,
FRO should be able to require that and enforce that as well .
all good , thats why they have lawyers and court

thanks for the positive words
honest ppl in the end , than it works

newtothis2011 10-10-2019 09:47 PM

No support ended as child was done 2year course
In April
Did the termination of support with FRO and she never replied till now 6months later saying she never got the letter
Its reopened now
No issue paying as in school
Order up to 21yrs in school full time
He isn't in school

Need to go to court to settle this with either true proof or
Get the court order to stop

Took you advise on the form from FRO but now this
The case was closed since April when documents were asked for
She claims they were never recieved

Selfrepmom 10-11-2019 07:40 AM

........:confused:

newtothis2011 10-11-2019 07:46 AM

Yes :(
Never given proper information
This is the confusion
And child isnt in school full time
FRO can reopen if she chooses to and not close it with consent from her
Clearly going to court
Need this taken care of so FRO can truly now close it for good

Selfrepmom 10-11-2019 07:51 AM

Ok without typing any extra word vomit, WHAT EXACTLY DOES YOUR ORDER SAY?

-Child Support payable until child is 21?
-Child Support payable until child is no longer a full time student?
-Child Support payable until child is 21 AND in some form of school?

Just type exactly what your order says


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