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lorely 05-10-2019 11:40 AM

General question false statements in affidavit
 
I am in the process of divorce. One family friend made false statements in an affidavit and now she is calling my parents back home affecting them emotionally through false accusations telling that I have poor moral integrity and that I am basically acting like a...... What can I do to stop all these? It's affecting my parents health tremendously

standing on the sidelines 05-10-2019 11:44 AM

Tell your parents not to talk to this person if it upsets them.

Mom 2 Two 05-10-2019 11:53 AM

Itís the same for my parents and extended family. My ex is stating that they are all a safety risk to him because he feels intimidated by them... even though they have never touched him or spoken to him in such a way for him to feel this way. Itís all to get people upset. My mom took great offence to my exís accusations. Itís hard but try to tell your parents to let it roll off. Especially if there is no proof.


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lorely 05-10-2019 11:55 AM

Is there any legal steps that I can take here? I don't consider it normal at all what that person is doing.

Mom 2 Two 05-10-2019 12:02 PM

Iím not sure. Do you have proof their statement is false? Is it worth the money and time to disprove their statement ?? Ask your lawyer what can be done. It would depend on how bad the statement is I guess.


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lorely 05-10-2019 12:09 PM

She stated that my STBX was spending the time with the kids, taking them for walks, outdoor activities, because I worked long hours. Which is totally not true, ven she took them for walks because he was drunk or sleeping in the house and at that time I was going on walks with the kids and she would join to walk her dog. She would even have drinks with him. Only two days I am working long hours.

Mom 2 Two 05-10-2019 12:17 PM

Itís all he said/she said sadly. My ex accused me and stated in affidavits very big lies... nothing you can do about it except answer back in your own affidavit stating your side is the story.


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rockscan 05-10-2019 12:21 PM

Tell your parents not to answer the phone. Or tell that person to fuck off.

If it is an affidavit from someone other than your ex it wont matter. If its your ex, ignore it. Everything is based on fact. If your children are young you may be subject to OCL (if in Ontario) which will include observation.

As for you, start developing a thicker skin. This will get ugly before it gets better. If they know it bugs you then they will continue.

Janus 05-12-2019 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by lorely (Post 235471)
she is calling my parents back home affecting them emotionally through false accusations telling that I have poor moral integrity and that I am basically acting like a......

like a what?

The suspense! I cannot handle it! Wait, maybe you are playing that game where instead of writing a bad word each dot represents a letter. Is that the game? So, 6 dots...

Asshole? 7 letters
Bitch? 5 letters
Fuckface? 8 letters
Motherfucker? 12 letters
Dick? 4 letters
Dirtbag? 7 letters
Donkey-raping-shit-eater? errr... way above 6

I give up.

Oh... and related to your actual question, why on earth do you actually care? Do you have poor moral integrity? Do your parents think that you have poor moral integrity? If my ex got somebody to call my parents saying that I was a terrible person it would just make for a great holiday tale that we would all find quite amusing.

lorely 05-13-2019 02:29 AM

Janis, my parents are sick and old, this is why it matters. They dont need the stress.
I asked them not to answer to private number calls.
The kids are not that young, they are 11 and 9.
Hopefully will get better.


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