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  • Won't give him access even though out of country?

    So more from crazytown

    Fiancee's ex is going on two more holidays coming up. One in the next couple of weeks. She has arranged form them to stay at her mom's in her absence.

    He said he will take them for 1 evening (out to dinner) since she is out of the country. The kids have requested more access time. She made 1 kid write and email (age 7) requesting more alone time (without me on the scene). She suggested 1 evening per week for dinner in exchange for one our our weekends - we said no your not taking more time away but we would happily take her up on the dinner for him and the kids alone. She said no way - now not in the best interest of the kids????

    Since she is not going to be in the country for the week he wants 3 hours access during this time. She says NO.

    Continually playing games and denying access. No first right of refusal. No access in her "time" even if she is not in the country.

    We have forwarded email to lawyer to show again a pattern of denying access and denying fathers rights.

    Opinions??

  • #2
    It always amazes me how a parent will withhold a child from his or her parent out of spite (or possibly fear of losing control) and then say it's in the best interest of the child. Only option I can see is for your fiancée to apply to court to vary the separation agreement or the order allowing him the children when the custodial parent is out of the province or country.

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    • #3
      She is being very immature. If I was out of town, I would rather have my ex take the children then anyone else. If the kids can't see one parent, I would hope they could at least have the other parent with them.

      Unfortunately, my Ex would most likely refuse if I offered extra time... Today is an example. Earlier this week I received an email from EX offering to pick the kids directly from the school and daycare today. At 6pm I finished teaching only to find several messages on my phone indicating that the kids had not been picked up! The children's father was contacted by the school (he is also listed as emergency contact) but denyed any prior knowledge of this arrangement and refused to pick the kids up? Although the kids are deeply dissappointed that Dad could not pick them up as promised, I got to see the kids for an extra night. I will just have to make alternative arrangements in case dad is a "no show" again.
      Last edited by Nadia; 09-29-2011, 09:16 PM.

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