Risky if try to find girl friend during Separation?

[Fullmetal]

Hi, there,
I have separated with my wife since end of last year, my divorce mentor said, it is risky if you find a girlfriend at this moment, there is one girl who always enters my life, help me a lot of thing, I don't know whether it's legally and logically to develop with her, any one can help?
Thanks!

[Rioe]

That's good advice. You're going through huge upheaval and turmoil right now, and whatever you are feeling about anyone else is affected by that other stuff. Anyone is going to look appealing compared to your ex for a while. Doesn't mean they actually are.

If there really is something potentially lasting between you and your female friend, it will benefit from being postponed until your life is emotionally stable again. You don't want to wreck it by turning her into only a rebound relationship.

[Epona]

Your Divorce Mentor gave you good advice. You'd be wise to follow it. Keep on friendly terms with your female friend and explain to her that you are going through an emotionally volatile time and you hope she will still be around when you're through the worst of it. Otherwise you and she could end up being hurt in a rebound relationship.
Also, being involved with another woman so soon after separating from your wife will help make her more upset and she might become less cooperative and accuse the other woman of being a husband stealer etc. Anyway, the point being having a girlfriend now will be making a bad time even worse.
Stay friends, but don't become romantically involved yet.

[Looking4Answers]

Separation/Divorce sucks, nobody can possibly be emotionally prepared for what is about to come down the pipes. Everyone needs support and wherever you can find it...TAKE IT. That is not saying you are going to run off and think about marriage all over again. Once you are going through a divorce you become smarter in picking people in your life. Enjoy having someone in your life and move on with your life and do your best to finalize your old life. Everyone needs love and we truly do need love and support at such a difficult time in our life. Best Wishes