I'm going through the nastiest stuff one could imagine with my ex narcissist.... there is absolutely NO reasoning with him.
I'm forced to get a lawyer yet don't have any money and he's playing on that.
We jointly bought a home 6yrs ago, both names on the deed, seperated over 6months now, and both still live in the home as he won't leave and i have no where else to go... thankfully he has been at his vacation property for the majority of the past 5 months. We both still pay the mortgage and bills. We both work full time. His income is over double of mine.
He refuses to fix anything...even a water leak in the basement - yet has the know how. He actually even removed the wetvac from the house so I couldn't use it to clean up the basement water.
He will not help me pay for a plumber either.
The only way I can offord one is if I stop paying 'my portion' of the bills/mortgage. The mortgage amount comes out of a joint bank account in which we both contribute to. There is an auto transfer from each of our individual bank accounts that rolls into the joint account to cover the mortage and the bills.
What would happen if I just stopped paying my portion of the mortgage to use the money for things like a plumber and a lawyer?
We are common in law 6 years - not married. I have one son that is not his child that i need to continue to support and have enough funds for food, clothing, etc...
Please help if you can.... i need some answers.
Is it ok for me to stop contributing to the bills of the house or will that do me more harm than good?
....desperately seeking answers
I'm forced to get a lawyer yet don't have any money and he's playing on that.
We jointly bought a home 6yrs ago, both names on the deed, seperated over 6months now, and both still live in the home as he won't leave and i have no where else to go... thankfully he has been at his vacation property for the majority of the past 5 months. We both still pay the mortgage and bills. We both work full time. His income is over double of mine.
He refuses to fix anything...even a water leak in the basement - yet has the know how. He actually even removed the wetvac from the house so I couldn't use it to clean up the basement water.
He will not help me pay for a plumber either.
The only way I can offord one is if I stop paying 'my portion' of the bills/mortgage. The mortgage amount comes out of a joint bank account in which we both contribute to. There is an auto transfer from each of our individual bank accounts that rolls into the joint account to cover the mortage and the bills.
What would happen if I just stopped paying my portion of the mortgage to use the money for things like a plumber and a lawyer?
We are common in law 6 years - not married. I have one son that is not his child that i need to continue to support and have enough funds for food, clothing, etc...
Please help if you can.... i need some answers.
Is it ok for me to stop contributing to the bills of the house or will that do me more harm than good?
....desperately seeking answers
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