I call this terminal because this has gone on way too long.
I am searching info for a g-friend.
Scenerio:
Not married, not common-law
one 12 yr old daughter between them
12-13 years under same roof(last year he stayed out in the barn)
12 years no conjugal relationship(yes 12 years! you would think he would leave)
home in her name only
home bought with her inheritance and mortgage paid for by her only
zero improvements to home (house badly in need of repairs)
files taxes as a single mother
work benefits for daughter only
man is a serious drunk (seen it myself....sad)
man has trouble holding a job
man has put friend on bankruptcy to avoid paying money owed
man is what I would call a house-boy: gets food and a place to sleep for minimal (mostly non-existent)chores
Here is the question:
She wants him out. She had a lawyer draft a letter giving him 30 days notice, to find legal representation, and how he needs to have a clean safe environment without alcohol to have visitation with daughter.
He is refusing to leave, claiming he has rights to stay & rights to her property. OPP is requiring a court order to remove him.
Everything I have read so far says he has no rights to anything and must leave. Does she really need a court order? Does the lawyer get this court order? What do you ask for? Can she request a restraining order through the police instead? Could she not just remove his stuff and have him charged with tresspassing, there is no rental agreement/lease?
Thanks in advance for any info provided.
I am just greatful she has finally decided to do something about this terminally ridiculous situation.
I am searching info for a g-friend.
Scenerio:
Not married, not common-law
one 12 yr old daughter between them
12-13 years under same roof(last year he stayed out in the barn)
12 years no conjugal relationship(yes 12 years! you would think he would leave)
home in her name only
home bought with her inheritance and mortgage paid for by her only
zero improvements to home (house badly in need of repairs)
files taxes as a single mother
work benefits for daughter only
man is a serious drunk (seen it myself....sad)
man has trouble holding a job
man has put friend on bankruptcy to avoid paying money owed
man is what I would call a house-boy: gets food and a place to sleep for minimal (mostly non-existent)chores
Here is the question:
She wants him out. She had a lawyer draft a letter giving him 30 days notice, to find legal representation, and how he needs to have a clean safe environment without alcohol to have visitation with daughter.
He is refusing to leave, claiming he has rights to stay & rights to her property. OPP is requiring a court order to remove him.
Everything I have read so far says he has no rights to anything and must leave. Does she really need a court order? Does the lawyer get this court order? What do you ask for? Can she request a restraining order through the police instead? Could she not just remove his stuff and have him charged with tresspassing, there is no rental agreement/lease?
Thanks in advance for any info provided.
I am just greatful she has finally decided to do something about this terminally ridiculous situation.
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