I am trying to work out the fine details of a parenting arrangement with my daughters mother.
Past summery. D12 lived with mom from separation until April 2017. Finally proven drug abuse and significant issues with the law allowed me to change custody of our daughter on an emergency motion. D12 has lived with me since then, she is doing great in school and really well making friends and is currently in counselling to help her adjust. Mom has supervision order with her S6 (not my son), and most of the access with D12 will mirror the access with S6 based on CAS recommendations.
Mom has refused to provide financial statements, or file taxes. She is currently working full time for a company but is paid in cash. She has mentioned that she works full time many times to us and even in front of my lawyer during an OCL meeting.I believe she is paid in cash. She is doing everything in her power to not pay child support. My suggestion was base income off full time hours at MIN wage until she can provide proper financial disclosure. Her suggestion is to base it off her NOA from last year. Problem for me is that last year she was in and out of jail and on Meth and other drugs with no income. I have not received a dime from her since custody changed.
There are other details that we are working out but this is just frustrating me. For years I paid CS early and above table amount at times. I had access refused for not giving CS early in the past.
Thank you
Past summery. D12 lived with mom from separation until April 2017. Finally proven drug abuse and significant issues with the law allowed me to change custody of our daughter on an emergency motion. D12 has lived with me since then, she is doing great in school and really well making friends and is currently in counselling to help her adjust. Mom has supervision order with her S6 (not my son), and most of the access with D12 will mirror the access with S6 based on CAS recommendations.
Mom has refused to provide financial statements, or file taxes. She is currently working full time for a company but is paid in cash. She has mentioned that she works full time many times to us and even in front of my lawyer during an OCL meeting.I believe she is paid in cash. She is doing everything in her power to not pay child support. My suggestion was base income off full time hours at MIN wage until she can provide proper financial disclosure. Her suggestion is to base it off her NOA from last year. Problem for me is that last year she was in and out of jail and on Meth and other drugs with no income. I have not received a dime from her since custody changed.
There are other details that we are working out but this is just frustrating me. For years I paid CS early and above table amount at times. I had access refused for not giving CS early in the past.
Thank you
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