I have been married for almost 10 years..now wife wants a divorce as she realized she didn't love me and she is miserable. We have two young kids 4 year old and 6 year old.
Since the kids were born, she asked her mom to help her to the point that her mom was residing with us for the first year of each child life. I was providing care side by side with my mother is law and my wife, to the point that I was preparing bottles and feeding in the middle of the night with having work the next day. Changing, bathing the kids..etc. I consider myself and her mom where doing most of the care to the point that the wife would go out and leave the kids with me and her mom.
The wife always said that she can't drive the kids by herself as she is afraid to get into an accident, so I was driving the kids to daycare and back on adaiky basis. I am registered as an emergency contact for school and daycare, her mom is the secondary one and she is the last one.
I have been getting up the kids in the morning to get them ready for daycare and now they are in school her mom gets them ready.
I have been taking them to all the activities and my wife rarely shows up. I drive to doctors appointments for 60 percent of the time. For the rest wife has to take her mom with her as she can't drive.
As wife always claimed that she is miserable and she couldn't take care of the kids, she would either sleep off the whole weekend or she decides to go shopping by herself. Starting 3 years back for a short while, she would go with me and the kids shopping.
Multiple times I had to stay late at work and she screams on the phone she can't handle the kids and I need to come ASAP.
I bath the kids as she claims she has back problems.
During vacations, she sits and relaxes while I am running around taking care of the kids.
When it comes to cooking, her mom is cooking for them 75 percent of the time.
On the weekends I am the one who seeks their fun time and take them places. Her response, I can't handle theses places with kids.
She been diagnosed with clinical depression because of work. Her psycharist whinned her off the medication after just two month starting it.
Now she blames her not being able to take of the kids based on her miserable marriage.
She thinks after separation she will begin to be a mom.
What chances do I have in terms of keeping that kids residing eith me and for her to visit? Her mom will support me in that as well as there are witnesses that I was mostly with the kids when she was not there. Do I have a strong case. She wants the kids to reside with her.
Thanks
Since the kids were born, she asked her mom to help her to the point that her mom was residing with us for the first year of each child life. I was providing care side by side with my mother is law and my wife, to the point that I was preparing bottles and feeding in the middle of the night with having work the next day. Changing, bathing the kids..etc. I consider myself and her mom where doing most of the care to the point that the wife would go out and leave the kids with me and her mom.
The wife always said that she can't drive the kids by herself as she is afraid to get into an accident, so I was driving the kids to daycare and back on adaiky basis. I am registered as an emergency contact for school and daycare, her mom is the secondary one and she is the last one.
I have been getting up the kids in the morning to get them ready for daycare and now they are in school her mom gets them ready.
I have been taking them to all the activities and my wife rarely shows up. I drive to doctors appointments for 60 percent of the time. For the rest wife has to take her mom with her as she can't drive.
As wife always claimed that she is miserable and she couldn't take care of the kids, she would either sleep off the whole weekend or she decides to go shopping by herself. Starting 3 years back for a short while, she would go with me and the kids shopping.
Multiple times I had to stay late at work and she screams on the phone she can't handle the kids and I need to come ASAP.
I bath the kids as she claims she has back problems.
During vacations, she sits and relaxes while I am running around taking care of the kids.
When it comes to cooking, her mom is cooking for them 75 percent of the time.
On the weekends I am the one who seeks their fun time and take them places. Her response, I can't handle theses places with kids.
She been diagnosed with clinical depression because of work. Her psycharist whinned her off the medication after just two month starting it.
Now she blames her not being able to take of the kids based on her miserable marriage.
She thinks after separation she will begin to be a mom.
What chances do I have in terms of keeping that kids residing eith me and for her to visit? Her mom will support me in that as well as there are witnesses that I was mostly with the kids when she was not there. Do I have a strong case. She wants the kids to reside with her.
Thanks
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