Hi folks,
So I was wondering if any of you noticed or attributed your child's behavior or change of behavior to parental alienation?
My S4 has aggressive outbursts after visiting his father's, shuts out my spouse who's been in S4's life for 1yr), and bluntly tells us that his father "makes fun" of us or "don't tell daddy lines". This behavior typically lasts about 24 to 48hrs. (documented)
Though I have been separated for close to 3yrs, ex is fluently abusive, somewhat of a bully and uncooperative with me, yet I choose to keep my cool and disengage. As I was studying Social Work and Correctional Services, I approached a teacher of mine who works for CAS and she made a good point when telling me that if he was treating me in such a manner, he could very well be treating S4 that way or have no regards to the damage he was doing if he was acting out against me in S4's presence. Moreover, child services have been involved yet see no negligence on ex's part and as one worker told me, S4's fed, has clothing and a roof over his head & she only has a plastic badge, there was not much she could do even if there was parental alienation going on...
But now S4 is speaking out, and I'm terrified.
Thanks for your inputs!
Pleasant weekend
So I was wondering if any of you noticed or attributed your child's behavior or change of behavior to parental alienation?
My S4 has aggressive outbursts after visiting his father's, shuts out my spouse who's been in S4's life for 1yr), and bluntly tells us that his father "makes fun" of us or "don't tell daddy lines". This behavior typically lasts about 24 to 48hrs. (documented)
Though I have been separated for close to 3yrs, ex is fluently abusive, somewhat of a bully and uncooperative with me, yet I choose to keep my cool and disengage. As I was studying Social Work and Correctional Services, I approached a teacher of mine who works for CAS and she made a good point when telling me that if he was treating me in such a manner, he could very well be treating S4 that way or have no regards to the damage he was doing if he was acting out against me in S4's presence. Moreover, child services have been involved yet see no negligence on ex's part and as one worker told me, S4's fed, has clothing and a roof over his head & she only has a plastic badge, there was not much she could do even if there was parental alienation going on...
But now S4 is speaking out, and I'm terrified.
Thanks for your inputs!
Pleasant weekend
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