... no, not that kind... I'm not that old yet
I just wanted to mark my transition to the next level in this forum.
It's been a nasty journey... but there is a light at the end of the tunnel... We came to an "agreement" at Mediation with 5 weeks to go to trial. I'm currently waiting for the final orders to crank their way through the system.
At least I'm now able to compartmentalize my anger and frustration at everything. I took an enormous financial bath (textbook case of only the lawyers won)... and am incredibly pi**ed at the way the law allows her to be free and clear and watch the cheques roll in... while I'm now hog-tied for life on the "indefinite support" bandwagon.
Most important though, is that my relationship with my teenage boys... which was always very good... continues to evolve into very great.
There has to be a better way.
As I've said in a previous post... the misery I'm currently facing is infinitely better than the misery I would be facing if things never changed
Thanks again folks for your help, support (and contrarian opinions) through this crap.
Cheers
I just wanted to mark my transition to the next level in this forum.
It's been a nasty journey... but there is a light at the end of the tunnel... We came to an "agreement" at Mediation with 5 weeks to go to trial. I'm currently waiting for the final orders to crank their way through the system.
At least I'm now able to compartmentalize my anger and frustration at everything. I took an enormous financial bath (textbook case of only the lawyers won)... and am incredibly pi**ed at the way the law allows her to be free and clear and watch the cheques roll in... while I'm now hog-tied for life on the "indefinite support" bandwagon.
Most important though, is that my relationship with my teenage boys... which was always very good... continues to evolve into very great.
There has to be a better way.
As I've said in a previous post... the misery I'm currently facing is infinitely better than the misery I would be facing if things never changed
Thanks again folks for your help, support (and contrarian opinions) through this crap.
Cheers
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