or would you move in/cohabit with you?
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XxxxxxxxxxxxxxxLast edited by takeontheworld; 08-09-2013, 07:51 PM. Reason: two glasses of wine caused double posting.
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People do marry themselves. It's called "self-marriage" or "sologamy". Not sure what happens if they decide to divorce!
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I love the idea of being married.
Unfortunately, the government refuses to allow those getting married to define the financial and other terms of that marriage, despite both being adults.
So I don't think I would get married again. However, given that I'm done having kids, etc. I would consider it if both of us practically had adult children and are capable of taking care of ourselves financially. Also, I would put weight on how they treated their ex wrt entitlement etc.
I would cohabitate though - that is worth the risk. I would get an agreement in place though. I may in this case if my partner were okay with it, wear 'wedding' rings.
As for me being marriage material - sure. I would never hold anyone financially responsible for me and would be totally fair if the relationship ended - I'm not a risk in that way. I do though like to hold the remote, so that could be a problem.Last edited by billm; 08-10-2013, 12:04 PM.
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Nope. I have to say I probably wouldn't. I don't want to be married. Who wants to be married to someone who doesn't want to be?
I feel that I am pretty scarred, untrusting, and NEVER want to live with what I did for 10 years again.
I have spent the last 5.5 years alone, and am probably pretty set in my ways. I think I'd probably be pretty difficult to live with if things didnt go the way I am used to them going now.
So, I guess... no. Although I am relatively intelligent enough to get by, make a great wage, and love my life... I am not a good catch. Any more. But I am extremely happy and that's all that really matters.
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