Well, someone had to post a fighting over Halloween thread
Halloween isn't covered in our separation agreement (a bit odd).
When we were married I took our son out every year, even when he was so little he was being pushed in the stroller.
After we separated in Aug 2010, I had a brief visit for an hour on Halloween in 2010. In 2011, I asked her if she was taking him out and she said she was. I emailed, "OK, I'll take him next year then." Turns out she didn't take him out after all.
This year Halloween falls on my access night (Wednesday evenings). Additionally, she had him last year for Halloween. Additionally I already e-mailed her that I would be taking him out this year.
And yet I get an e-mail unilaterally terminating my access for that night, saying she has plans for him.
I plan to talk to my son (he is 5 years old) and see what he wants to do for Halloween. I believe that we should alternate Halloweens, or that Halloween should follow the "normal" schedule. In both cases, I should have him this year. I do not accept that she terminated my access. My son would have a great time trick or treating with me and my new partner's children.
Suggestions?
Halloween isn't covered in our separation agreement (a bit odd).
When we were married I took our son out every year, even when he was so little he was being pushed in the stroller.
After we separated in Aug 2010, I had a brief visit for an hour on Halloween in 2010. In 2011, I asked her if she was taking him out and she said she was. I emailed, "OK, I'll take him next year then." Turns out she didn't take him out after all.
This year Halloween falls on my access night (Wednesday evenings). Additionally, she had him last year for Halloween. Additionally I already e-mailed her that I would be taking him out this year.
And yet I get an e-mail unilaterally terminating my access for that night, saying she has plans for him.
I plan to talk to my son (he is 5 years old) and see what he wants to do for Halloween. I believe that we should alternate Halloweens, or that Halloween should follow the "normal" schedule. In both cases, I should have him this year. I do not accept that she terminated my access. My son would have a great time trick or treating with me and my new partner's children.
Suggestions?
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