Status quo of 50/50 shared parenting of our two children (9 & 11) worked well for past year, as the kids could walk between mom and dad's houses and to their school. Ex moved 1/2 hour away in August and hockey and school homework are new issues she is basing her physical custody claim on.
Does she have an argument to alter the status quo?
Ex is claiming that she is the only parent who can speak French, and since the children attend French school, and visit her each day even on the father's week (= untrue as we live 1/2 hr. apart now: that was last yr.) so she can assist with homework.
May of 2012, after having been confronted with my ex's feeling she was doing more than 50%, I assured her I would take care of their homework.
This new arrangement carried into the recent school year and has apparently been working fine. June 2012 report cards were very good, and I have worked on securing a French tutor to address my week of 2 -4 times per week tutoring (kids gave me pushback, and daughter said she is fine as the eldest to complete hers: she does when she arrives home from school daily). Next week (my parenting week), I will write notes in each of my kids' agendas asking their teachers to touch base with me on any academic concerns they have for each of my children. No issues = all is well.
Identified issues = area to focus on.
So, I believe I am taking appropriate and reasonable measures to prove I am an engaged and supportive parent and acting in my kids' best interests and worthy to support and continue the status quo 50/50 shared parenting arrangement. Changing this status quo would not be a healthy arrangment for the kids, nor their father...
Does she have an argument to alter the status quo?
Ex is claiming that she is the only parent who can speak French, and since the children attend French school, and visit her each day even on the father's week (= untrue as we live 1/2 hr. apart now: that was last yr.) so she can assist with homework.
May of 2012, after having been confronted with my ex's feeling she was doing more than 50%, I assured her I would take care of their homework.
This new arrangement carried into the recent school year and has apparently been working fine. June 2012 report cards were very good, and I have worked on securing a French tutor to address my week of 2 -4 times per week tutoring (kids gave me pushback, and daughter said she is fine as the eldest to complete hers: she does when she arrives home from school daily). Next week (my parenting week), I will write notes in each of my kids' agendas asking their teachers to touch base with me on any academic concerns they have for each of my children. No issues = all is well.
Identified issues = area to focus on.
So, I believe I am taking appropriate and reasonable measures to prove I am an engaged and supportive parent and acting in my kids' best interests and worthy to support and continue the status quo 50/50 shared parenting arrangement. Changing this status quo would not be a healthy arrangment for the kids, nor their father...
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