I should have put this in the financial section but wasn't sure what I was doing.
Hello to all. I have really needed a place to sound off and get opinions, so was very happy to find this site. I am giving you a lot of information before I get to my problem but hope that the back ground will help.
Married - May 1990
Separated - May 2006
2 sons - at time of separation 13 and 11
Ex - at time of separation income approximately $95,000, travelled province for work
Me - worked part time
Agreed that he pay mortgage and taxes while settlement was worked out. Took 4 years for settlement - which happened to coincide with oldest about to turn 18. Ex furious to find out that he was missing 2 credits and had to return to school for another semester.
Broke and getting deeper in debt by this time and could no longer afford to fight and try and get back support. Lawyer not really seeming to care.
3 months after agreement youngest all of a sudden decides to live with Ex. I signed papers agreeing to pay child support after I talked to different lawyer who says I have no choice after taking over $3,000.00. FRO deducted this from what I was receiving in child support and alimony.
Alimony $700.00 per month taking into account amount of child support being paid with increase to $800.00 if he made over $120,000.00. Total of $1905.00 which I received for 4 months.
2010 made over $120,000.00 - FRO says need new order
2011 - oldest no longer child of marriage as Ex refuses to help with post secondary which was put in our agreement by him (I disagreed) that we would pay for.
2011 - FRO's legal department says I don't have to pay for youngest? I don't know why.
2011 - start proceedings (without legal counsel) to get alimony increased but offset by amount I should pay for child support - Ex won't agree - wants child support.
2012 - back in court again - judge is incredulous that he won't pay lessor spousal to take into account child support but does agree with an increase in spousal. (Ex now living common law and making $135,000.00) (Me now making $50,000.)
July of this year trial management conference another judge that can't believe he wants child support- going to trial. Judge orders new financials be served and filed by September 15th.
Now my dilemma begins. He didn't file or serve his financials. I have to have Trial Record filed by October 15th. I can file a motion to hold him in contempt but is it worth is?
What do I do next?
I am sorry if this is long winded but I was trying to give as much information as possible.
Hello to all. I have really needed a place to sound off and get opinions, so was very happy to find this site. I am giving you a lot of information before I get to my problem but hope that the back ground will help.
Married - May 1990
Separated - May 2006
2 sons - at time of separation 13 and 11
Ex - at time of separation income approximately $95,000, travelled province for work
Me - worked part time
Agreed that he pay mortgage and taxes while settlement was worked out. Took 4 years for settlement - which happened to coincide with oldest about to turn 18. Ex furious to find out that he was missing 2 credits and had to return to school for another semester.
Broke and getting deeper in debt by this time and could no longer afford to fight and try and get back support. Lawyer not really seeming to care.
3 months after agreement youngest all of a sudden decides to live with Ex. I signed papers agreeing to pay child support after I talked to different lawyer who says I have no choice after taking over $3,000.00. FRO deducted this from what I was receiving in child support and alimony.
Alimony $700.00 per month taking into account amount of child support being paid with increase to $800.00 if he made over $120,000.00. Total of $1905.00 which I received for 4 months.
2010 made over $120,000.00 - FRO says need new order
2011 - oldest no longer child of marriage as Ex refuses to help with post secondary which was put in our agreement by him (I disagreed) that we would pay for.
2011 - FRO's legal department says I don't have to pay for youngest? I don't know why.
2011 - start proceedings (without legal counsel) to get alimony increased but offset by amount I should pay for child support - Ex won't agree - wants child support.
2012 - back in court again - judge is incredulous that he won't pay lessor spousal to take into account child support but does agree with an increase in spousal. (Ex now living common law and making $135,000.00) (Me now making $50,000.)
July of this year trial management conference another judge that can't believe he wants child support- going to trial. Judge orders new financials be served and filed by September 15th.
Now my dilemma begins. He didn't file or serve his financials. I have to have Trial Record filed by October 15th. I can file a motion to hold him in contempt but is it worth is?
What do I do next?
I am sorry if this is long winded but I was trying to give as much information as possible.
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