about adult kid(s) in post-secondary and payment for them...
..anyways got out of court awhile ago with regard to one of the kids quitting college and when asked for a support reductionthe ex refused so a year and a half later in court it seem ex got the child to go back(ex was losing in court) at the TMC ex didn't have any college marks for child when judge asked (it was mid summer first year of college was over) but ex told judge child was doing great in school and living with her......anyways my position caved (things change ...hope for the best for child yadda yadda...e.tc.) and an order was made to support the child....one part of the order is for sharing 1/3 cost for post secondary for this child and same thing for all future kids the same format.......guideline support was for other younger kids....and ex was to provide college marks for prior year and I was to give money for it............anyways after I paid and got the transcript for college it turns out the child failed and dropped out shortly in second semester......perjury comes to mind...but a bad deal is better than no deal I assumed ex was lying to avoid my 12,000.00 lawyer bill ex was self represented btw (10 times cost of childs college)..........anyways now another child is going to college and ex wants guideline support and 1/3 school cost and child is living with her. The order says 1/3 cost by each of the parties it's totally clear and made when a child was living at home...any thoughts? before I head off too court again
..anyways got out of court awhile ago with regard to one of the kids quitting college and when asked for a support reductionthe ex refused so a year and a half later in court it seem ex got the child to go back(ex was losing in court) at the TMC ex didn't have any college marks for child when judge asked (it was mid summer first year of college was over) but ex told judge child was doing great in school and living with her......anyways my position caved (things change ...hope for the best for child yadda yadda...e.tc.) and an order was made to support the child....one part of the order is for sharing 1/3 cost for post secondary for this child and same thing for all future kids the same format.......guideline support was for other younger kids....and ex was to provide college marks for prior year and I was to give money for it............anyways after I paid and got the transcript for college it turns out the child failed and dropped out shortly in second semester......perjury comes to mind...but a bad deal is better than no deal I assumed ex was lying to avoid my 12,000.00 lawyer bill ex was self represented btw (10 times cost of childs college)..........anyways now another child is going to college and ex wants guideline support and 1/3 school cost and child is living with her. The order says 1/3 cost by each of the parties it's totally clear and made when a child was living at home...any thoughts? before I head off too court again
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