We have been seperated for 5+ months. Going for the first round of mediation next week. We are in a nesting arrangement, trading time in the matrimonial home until things are settled for the kids sake.
In the last few weeks, the kids have begun to mention that "Jane" was over at the house during Dad's time for visits and that she is really nice to them. She was there after the kid's bedtime. Dad was sleeping with "Jane" before we were seperated.
I have no issue with my ex being with someone else....no jealousy or anything...it was one of the last straws that made me stand up and end the marriage (I am glad that it happened and I smelled the coffee)...my thinking - let her deal with his bull and discover what he is actually like.
My question is - when should my ex be introducing someone new in his life to the kids (they are young, all 3 between ages of 7 and 10)? We have yet to deal with custody arrangements, possession of the home, financials etc... The kids are still asking where they will live and if they will be with Mommy most of the time.
He has over 50% of his time without the kids - shouldn't he continue his relationship without their involvement until the dust settles?
In the last few weeks, the kids have begun to mention that "Jane" was over at the house during Dad's time for visits and that she is really nice to them. She was there after the kid's bedtime. Dad was sleeping with "Jane" before we were seperated.
I have no issue with my ex being with someone else....no jealousy or anything...it was one of the last straws that made me stand up and end the marriage (I am glad that it happened and I smelled the coffee)...my thinking - let her deal with his bull and discover what he is actually like.
My question is - when should my ex be introducing someone new in his life to the kids (they are young, all 3 between ages of 7 and 10)? We have yet to deal with custody arrangements, possession of the home, financials etc... The kids are still asking where they will live and if they will be with Mommy most of the time.
He has over 50% of his time without the kids - shouldn't he continue his relationship without their involvement until the dust settles?
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