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  1. Difficult Situation
    09-20-2009 08:20 PM
    Difficult Situation
    I am looking for some answers and the mediation did not work with us. My common law ex is giving me a hard time and will not cooperate with the mediators and it has been more than 5 months now. He owns his own business.

    Issue# 1: CL since 1991, separated in 2000. Two kids age 15 & 18. Verbal agreement and ex paid $1300 each month until June where he stopped the payments and no apprarent reason given. I am guessing his new girlfriend has everthing to do with this.
    Can I enforce this myself without having to go through the lawyers?
    Issue#2: Property in both our names. Paid $30k down in 1991 but do not have proof. He left on his own terms and we did not hear from him for 2 months. He came to pick up his stuff after two months. I have been paying the mortgage, propr tax, hse insurance, maintenance, utilities since 2000. How do we divide the equity and can I enforce this myself or do I need a lawyer for this. I just want a fair equity division and would like to get some answers. He also claims that If I go to the lawyers he will clean me up and I will be left with nothing. Past history of physical & emotional abuse to both me and the kids.
    Thanks...Difficult Situation

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