I just saw your message after my new thread, so it pretty well explains my reason for travelling. It's good to get away and reconnect with my cousins, but with all the legal stuff up in the air, there is still that tension.
I will need t get really busy when I get home with the house...so many details, and so much "stuff" to clear. I've lived in it for almost 37 years, but will be glad when I have my own apartment and the house is finally sold.