Is there anyone who would agree with me that a week about is too long for children to be away from a parent. This has been so hard for me, is there any chance of chaning a status quo after a year of 50/50 week about where there is only a 1 hour visit on Thursdays (same night as extra curricular) so it doesn't even count for quality visits as they are engaged in their sport. The children's dad is very mean spirited. Constantly threatens to take them away from me accusing me of using drugs and alcohol (digging up the past) and not something I'm concerned about now, however he constantly threatens me to take them away. I have them for a week and want to change the week about to a mon-wed, wed-fri, fri-mon schedule where the access is still 50/50 just less time between seeing the kids. I feel like I was stripped in this separation. Feeling like I lost my children, all my money, my home, my life, my family...everything and I can't stop crying sometimes as I miss the kids so much. I hate being alone without them. They are everything to me. I'm good to their dad. Made him a "worlds best dad Tshirt for Fday" from the kids with their picture on it. He still hasn't paid me my equilization payment that amounted to $150,000. And he hasn't paid a dime in spousal, even though I haven't worked in the last year and returned to school to upgrade and gain employable skills (this was planned years before our separation and thanks to second career it was funded). How long can it take before I see some money, division of the furniture, spousal support, a change in the schedule. I can barely afford the lawyer, but at least she's good. The questioning she did 2 weeks ago resulted in her finding several lies in his affidavid and hiding his income (he's self employed). Basically, I just want to have my kids in my life and want to get on with my life. I want a home equal to what we had (if not equal, then at least decent, above ground with a back yard) Our matramonial home is on 1.5 acres in a really nice rural area. How can this inequity be allowed to happen. Can Children's Aid help me change the children's schedule so I don't have to pay my lawyer and run up my bill as I really need her to work on the financials. I so regret giving away half of my kids, as he now abuses his power and my access to them, even so far as only allowing 1 phone call per day rigididly (not for anyreason or harrassment...just to have control.)

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