Hello members,
Haven’t been here for a while but thought I’d come ask a question on a situation.
Mom and Dad separated in September 2022, Dad decided at end of December to move 16 hour away to a different province than where the kids are. Kids are all under 6… Dad has not saw the kids since he left and has tentatively stated he wants to come back in June for a weekend to visit. He has only talked to the kids via FaceTime four times since he left. Mom wants Dad involved in the kids life and has tried to keep him updated, telling me he needs to call more or answer the kids call but he just doesn’t.
The last time he had the kids alone, he took them to a hotel where he fell asleep on them at 6pm… the kids could not wake him up and had to fend for themselves all night. This has upset the kids and they often bring up that time dad fell asleep on them. Mom doesn’t know how to navigate this situation and visit… she wants them to spend time with dad (even though they will be devastated when he leaves again) but given it will be six months since his last visit should overnights be allowed? The youngest was a year old when dad left and after all this time really doesn’t know who dad is. The kids have said they don’t want to spend a night with dad at a hotel but given their ages don’t really have a say.
How does it usually work when a parent has been absent for six months and then wants to visit?
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Haven’t been here for a while but thought I’d come ask a question on a situation.
Mom and Dad separated in September 2022, Dad decided at end of December to move 16 hour away to a different province than where the kids are. Kids are all under 6… Dad has not saw the kids since he left and has tentatively stated he wants to come back in June for a weekend to visit. He has only talked to the kids via FaceTime four times since he left. Mom wants Dad involved in the kids life and has tried to keep him updated, telling me he needs to call more or answer the kids call but he just doesn’t.
The last time he had the kids alone, he took them to a hotel where he fell asleep on them at 6pm… the kids could not wake him up and had to fend for themselves all night. This has upset the kids and they often bring up that time dad fell asleep on them. Mom doesn’t know how to navigate this situation and visit… she wants them to spend time with dad (even though they will be devastated when he leaves again) but given it will be six months since his last visit should overnights be allowed? The youngest was a year old when dad left and after all this time really doesn’t know who dad is. The kids have said they don’t want to spend a night with dad at a hotel but given their ages don’t really have a say.
How does it usually work when a parent has been absent for six months and then wants to visit?
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