Hello everyone!
I am new here and need your advise if it's possible:
1. My first conference hearing is on January 31st, 2022
2. Going for the Sole Custody. I was sure that the Father will not want any type of custody because he was never involved in child's life since the day she was born.
3. She just turned 2 years.
4. Separated on June 12thz 2021
5. Since June 19th, 2021, I have been trying to give the Father a child for overnight, weekends and even spend every day. He refused saying either the weather ia bad, he lives in a basement apartment, the sky is not blue enough so on.
6. Because the child by then was 16 months old, I was asking him to provide me his schedule. He would refuse.
7. He would should up every 3 weeks or month.
8. Would ask for visitations mostly on long weekends, for an hour, when I was in Niagara Falls and I can prove that.
9. I have sent out an email to him to spend time with child in September and any other day if he wishes. He refused.
10. He even refused to spend 8 days with child during my January business trip saying, his basement is not good for child.
11. When he realized that I am going to give him more parenting time that he did not wanted, he came up with different tactics, asking for visitations during long weekend for an hour when he knew I was away. How he knew? It is a tradition for me to go out with child to Niagara Falls or elsewhere while long weekend, while the father of the child during our marriage would never join us, saying, he is tired and wanted to stay home instead.
12. Now he has not seen the child for 4 months. He uses me as a reason, even though I have emails and messages where I am asking him to provide a schedule because the child is minor.
13. We went to different province and he did not sign his consent form.
14. He moved 87 km away from us and did not inform.
15. He never went to a single doctor appointment or covid tests for child. Was never interested and everything was pretty much on me.
16. He uses text messages during long weekend when I was away in court that I am not letting him to see the child even though I was away.
17. When there was no reply from his lawyer on separation agreement, they came up with the response asking for the joint custody and false accusations.
18. Unfortunately, the father never provided the schedule or respected his daughter's routine. Never texted to find out if she is doing OK or made a phone call. Nothing.
I have already spent 30000 dollars in legal fees and this is just a first conference. Pretty much will have to represent myself after.
How can I prove the judge that I am not the one who does not give the child to him, it is the father shows no interest and picks on purposely times for visitation, like with 52 minute notice after 7 PM.
Thank you.
I am new here and need your advise if it's possible:
1. My first conference hearing is on January 31st, 2022
2. Going for the Sole Custody. I was sure that the Father will not want any type of custody because he was never involved in child's life since the day she was born.
3. She just turned 2 years.
4. Separated on June 12thz 2021
5. Since June 19th, 2021, I have been trying to give the Father a child for overnight, weekends and even spend every day. He refused saying either the weather ia bad, he lives in a basement apartment, the sky is not blue enough so on.
6. Because the child by then was 16 months old, I was asking him to provide me his schedule. He would refuse.
7. He would should up every 3 weeks or month.
8. Would ask for visitations mostly on long weekends, for an hour, when I was in Niagara Falls and I can prove that.
9. I have sent out an email to him to spend time with child in September and any other day if he wishes. He refused.
10. He even refused to spend 8 days with child during my January business trip saying, his basement is not good for child.
11. When he realized that I am going to give him more parenting time that he did not wanted, he came up with different tactics, asking for visitations during long weekend for an hour when he knew I was away. How he knew? It is a tradition for me to go out with child to Niagara Falls or elsewhere while long weekend, while the father of the child during our marriage would never join us, saying, he is tired and wanted to stay home instead.
12. Now he has not seen the child for 4 months. He uses me as a reason, even though I have emails and messages where I am asking him to provide a schedule because the child is minor.
13. We went to different province and he did not sign his consent form.
14. He moved 87 km away from us and did not inform.
15. He never went to a single doctor appointment or covid tests for child. Was never interested and everything was pretty much on me.
16. He uses text messages during long weekend when I was away in court that I am not letting him to see the child even though I was away.
17. When there was no reply from his lawyer on separation agreement, they came up with the response asking for the joint custody and false accusations.
18. Unfortunately, the father never provided the schedule or respected his daughter's routine. Never texted to find out if she is doing OK or made a phone call. Nothing.
I have already spent 30000 dollars in legal fees and this is just a first conference. Pretty much will have to represent myself after.
How can I prove the judge that I am not the one who does not give the child to him, it is the father shows no interest and picks on purposely times for visitation, like with 52 minute notice after 7 PM.
Thank you.
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