Tweet
The ex's ears must have been burning... (rolling my eyes).
Out of the blue, I finally got a 1 sentence response to a confirmation of scheduling change, for the upcoming weekend. That was 1 sentence. Cool, finally confirmed.
The rest of her email, was to bring up out of the blue, an issue that apparently my daughter has said comments "couple times to me but now ive really got to put my foot down." (according to mom). She also says in the next few sentences it's been an issue for "a couple of years now", but this is the first I'm hearing of it. Which is it? (rolling my eyes, again)
Apparently, my 3 year old has said comments about her not liking people who are "dark" in colour. What? I'm just paraphrasing the comments mom sent me. The rest of the email, is accusatory towards me, about why I would teach my daughter such things, and that I'm a racist, and not a good role model for my daugther. etc, etc.
This is utterly ridiculous. I'm guessing she's trying to start up a fight again, and of course, she's bring up her now "current" boyfriend again, as apparently he falls into this category. How would you handle such an email? It's obvious, she's trying to start something here again?
I did respond to her already, only to:
- tell her this has not been an issue that I have seen, at all, and that I've heard nothing from the school as well on this.
- asked her, why I'm just hearing about this now, if this has been such a long running issue, according to her
- asked her, to not use hostile communication, and to call me a racist, as it's oviously not true, and is not helpful.
- asked her, what she's doing, as corrective measures, if these comments are really being made, when my daughter is with her?
If she persists with the hostile communiation, is there any point in trying to keep this communication open with her? This seems another email, to just try and slander me, apparently.
The only reason I responded at all, is my daughter did just start school, so she's seeing a lot of new kids and faces, so I have to factor in, that perhaps this has come up as an issue, seeing so many new kids at school?
I'm guessing, this has not been an issue at all though.
Out of the blue, I finally got a 1 sentence response to a confirmation of scheduling change, for the upcoming weekend. That was 1 sentence. Cool, finally confirmed.
The rest of her email, was to bring up out of the blue, an issue that apparently my daughter has said comments "couple times to me but now ive really got to put my foot down." (according to mom). She also says in the next few sentences it's been an issue for "a couple of years now", but this is the first I'm hearing of it. Which is it? (rolling my eyes, again)
Apparently, my 3 year old has said comments about her not liking people who are "dark" in colour. What? I'm just paraphrasing the comments mom sent me. The rest of the email, is accusatory towards me, about why I would teach my daughter such things, and that I'm a racist, and not a good role model for my daugther. etc, etc.
This is utterly ridiculous. I'm guessing she's trying to start up a fight again, and of course, she's bring up her now "current" boyfriend again, as apparently he falls into this category. How would you handle such an email? It's obvious, she's trying to start something here again?
I did respond to her already, only to:
- tell her this has not been an issue that I have seen, at all, and that I've heard nothing from the school as well on this.
- asked her, why I'm just hearing about this now, if this has been such a long running issue, according to her
- asked her, to not use hostile communication, and to call me a racist, as it's oviously not true, and is not helpful.
- asked her, what she's doing, as corrective measures, if these comments are really being made, when my daughter is with her?
If she persists with the hostile communiation, is there any point in trying to keep this communication open with her? This seems another email, to just try and slander me, apparently.
The only reason I responded at all, is my daughter did just start school, so she's seeing a lot of new kids and faces, so I have to factor in, that perhaps this has come up as an issue, seeing so many new kids at school?
I'm guessing, this has not been an issue at all though.
Comment