Hi,
Just found out yesterday that my wife is having an affair, totally accidentally was not looking for info - just fixing her computer. Emails confirm a physical relationship. The shock was so great I literally could not breathe and had to lie down on the floor. My wife was not around so i had time to absorb the blow. I have not confronted her with the info. It seems that many people at work and many of her friends know about the relationship based on emails. I started researching and thinking of next steps. Found this site. Don't know if I should confront her or take other steps first. I have bought a PVR and moved some documents to a locker (all my pre marriage asset information). I have not phoned a lawyer and I am not sure where to start getting one. Lots of sites listing lawyers - how do I know if their good? Should I contact the wife of the man she is having the affair with to let her know too? It is a work affair but I have met the wife.
My situation: 7 years married Lived together for 2 years before that. 2 kids still young. Both employed. My earnings are almost double hers, but she makes a decent wages.
Just found out yesterday that my wife is having an affair, totally accidentally was not looking for info - just fixing her computer. Emails confirm a physical relationship. The shock was so great I literally could not breathe and had to lie down on the floor. My wife was not around so i had time to absorb the blow. I have not confronted her with the info. It seems that many people at work and many of her friends know about the relationship based on emails. I started researching and thinking of next steps. Found this site. Don't know if I should confront her or take other steps first. I have bought a PVR and moved some documents to a locker (all my pre marriage asset information). I have not phoned a lawyer and I am not sure where to start getting one. Lots of sites listing lawyers - how do I know if their good? Should I contact the wife of the man she is having the affair with to let her know too? It is a work affair but I have met the wife.
My situation: 7 years married Lived together for 2 years before that. 2 kids still young. Both employed. My earnings are almost double hers, but she makes a decent wages.
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