Hi,
I have been married for almost 25 years. My husband was having an affair for the pat 3 years. I discovered this relationship about 2 years ago, and since then have made myself emotionally vulnerable in making it clear to him I wanted to rebuild our relationship. I made significant efforts to change things about myself that we had agreed had contributed to the breakdown of our relationship; however, while he did return home a number of times during these 2 years, most recently for 9 months, he again contacted this other woman about 5 months ago, moved out and has now told me he is committed to building a relationship with her.
I struggle with loneliness, huge sadness and anxiety as well as a pretty beat up sene of myself. Any words of wisdom are very welcome!
I have been married for almost 25 years. My husband was having an affair for the pat 3 years. I discovered this relationship about 2 years ago, and since then have made myself emotionally vulnerable in making it clear to him I wanted to rebuild our relationship. I made significant efforts to change things about myself that we had agreed had contributed to the breakdown of our relationship; however, while he did return home a number of times during these 2 years, most recently for 9 months, he again contacted this other woman about 5 months ago, moved out and has now told me he is committed to building a relationship with her.
I struggle with loneliness, huge sadness and anxiety as well as a pretty beat up sene of myself. Any words of wisdom are very welcome!
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