Hi everyone.
I do not want to take away from all your horrible circ's, so I will just get to the gist of it. My partner was srsly handicapped in 2001 and I'm still hangin for him. He's a unique and interesting person to me. But I'm done now, used up, exhausted. He smacked me upside the head the other day, because I was disgusted with his behviour. He takes morphine for his pain and he is now abusing alcohol. I hate it. I met with a lawyer who told me to get a pre-nup cuz we're not married in Ontario, just livin together since '96. I want all compensation coming to me, since I've been the only caregiver since srs accident of '01. Meantime he gets mean when he is drinking, and does stupid shit like transfer his old wife's crap onto me. I don't even 'think' or 'feel' like his old wife, but I still get the abuse. I'm tired man, really tired. I hang in, only cuz my daughter loves him so much. What to do? How can I get what I deserve as an partner what I would really get as a wife?
P.S. He hit me once, never again. plus give me a break, i'm learning how to use this computer thingie. I will get up to speed soon, I hope.
I do not want to take away from all your horrible circ's, so I will just get to the gist of it. My partner was srsly handicapped in 2001 and I'm still hangin for him. He's a unique and interesting person to me. But I'm done now, used up, exhausted. He smacked me upside the head the other day, because I was disgusted with his behviour. He takes morphine for his pain and he is now abusing alcohol. I hate it. I met with a lawyer who told me to get a pre-nup cuz we're not married in Ontario, just livin together since '96. I want all compensation coming to me, since I've been the only caregiver since srs accident of '01. Meantime he gets mean when he is drinking, and does stupid shit like transfer his old wife's crap onto me. I don't even 'think' or 'feel' like his old wife, but I still get the abuse. I'm tired man, really tired. I hang in, only cuz my daughter loves him so much. What to do? How can I get what I deserve as an partner what I would really get as a wife?
P.S. He hit me once, never again. plus give me a break, i'm learning how to use this computer thingie. I will get up to speed soon, I hope.
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