Are there any other 2nd wives out there who have seen the injustice of the Federal Child Support Guidelines at work? Have seen their husbands lose access to their kids, have seen them live in poverty, trying to keep up with CS payments and "extra-ordinary" expenses that are not based in reality?
Have seen the ex wife move the kids accross the country, taking his kids away becasue she has some sob story about how she wants to move "home"? Have seen your husband pay thousands and thousands in flights just to visit his children, without any monetary input from the ex who moved away?
How there is no accoutability for the CP to provide where or how she spends the money sent for the kids? How (as in our case) she can go to "school" for over 5 years, using all the CS sent for the kids, all the Canadian Child Tax benefits and all the other "low income" subsidies available to her, simply because she doesn't WANT to work?
And how about the second children, that are not entitled to any support from their father, just whatever is "left-over" after the first kids get (in our case) 1/2 their fathers net salary? And what about when your husband does "better" financially, the first kids get to benefit from this, but when your husband isn't doing so well, she will impute him a higher income, so her kids don't have to share in the misfortunes, only the good times.
What about the tax consequenses? The second family bears the brunt of the taxes, but when any gov't benefits or programs are calculated for the "second" children, they do not even take off the money paid to the first children when assessing any needs the second kids might have.
How many second wives are tired of first wives saying "I need the money to keep us the home for the child?" Do they forget that the NCP must also have a home for their children? How many second wives are tired of their husbands paying the ex CS for the children for two months in the summer, when the children live with them? So now the ex gets a 2 month paid holiday without her kids? Oh right, they NEED the money those 2 months, to keep up the "family" home.
Men (and NCP's in general) are getting bashed around by the system. If the so-called feminists could influence the system so much, maybe they only listen to womens voices? Maybe they will listen to women who want a fair system, where a man can support his CHILDREN fairly, but his ex wife can support HERSELF.
Have seen the ex wife move the kids accross the country, taking his kids away becasue she has some sob story about how she wants to move "home"? Have seen your husband pay thousands and thousands in flights just to visit his children, without any monetary input from the ex who moved away?
How there is no accoutability for the CP to provide where or how she spends the money sent for the kids? How (as in our case) she can go to "school" for over 5 years, using all the CS sent for the kids, all the Canadian Child Tax benefits and all the other "low income" subsidies available to her, simply because she doesn't WANT to work?
And how about the second children, that are not entitled to any support from their father, just whatever is "left-over" after the first kids get (in our case) 1/2 their fathers net salary? And what about when your husband does "better" financially, the first kids get to benefit from this, but when your husband isn't doing so well, she will impute him a higher income, so her kids don't have to share in the misfortunes, only the good times.
What about the tax consequenses? The second family bears the brunt of the taxes, but when any gov't benefits or programs are calculated for the "second" children, they do not even take off the money paid to the first children when assessing any needs the second kids might have.
How many second wives are tired of first wives saying "I need the money to keep us the home for the child?" Do they forget that the NCP must also have a home for their children? How many second wives are tired of their husbands paying the ex CS for the children for two months in the summer, when the children live with them? So now the ex gets a 2 month paid holiday without her kids? Oh right, they NEED the money those 2 months, to keep up the "family" home.
Men (and NCP's in general) are getting bashed around by the system. If the so-called feminists could influence the system so much, maybe they only listen to womens voices? Maybe they will listen to women who want a fair system, where a man can support his CHILDREN fairly, but his ex wife can support HERSELF.
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