Ok. So my ex was paying $228/month CS, on a paystub claiming to the courts he made $26 000/yr. After months of waiting for his income tax return (as court ordered) to be shared, I now see he actually made $45500/yr.
So, the monthly CS should have been $420/month....meaning for 12months, Aug 08-Aug09 he would owe our 6yr old $2304.00. I did not go to court about this, I have been thinking about it, not sure what to do. As soon as I do go, I know I will get the label "wanting money, and greedy" from him (as that is the way he is).
I do not use the money from CS, I put it into a GIC for her, for her future use and I match it (plus have an RESP set up for her etc....as I am very financially responsible).
Now for Sept, the FRO put $180 in for CS. So the amount went down from $228 to $180 (even though it should be $420).
I cannot seem to get my case worker from the FRO on the phone (left a message). I would like to know why the amount has changed?
So now what do I do? I would love to hear what someone who pays CS thinks. Do I go to court? I do not understand how the amount changed without any notice to me as to why? And why did it go down, when he is making more than he claims (evident from his income tax return)?
I am so confused. I am not greedy or wanting money, I wish he would own up to his responsibilities, then this would not be an issue at all. (play by the rules....)
So, the monthly CS should have been $420/month....meaning for 12months, Aug 08-Aug09 he would owe our 6yr old $2304.00. I did not go to court about this, I have been thinking about it, not sure what to do. As soon as I do go, I know I will get the label "wanting money, and greedy" from him (as that is the way he is).
I do not use the money from CS, I put it into a GIC for her, for her future use and I match it (plus have an RESP set up for her etc....as I am very financially responsible).
Now for Sept, the FRO put $180 in for CS. So the amount went down from $228 to $180 (even though it should be $420).
I cannot seem to get my case worker from the FRO on the phone (left a message). I would like to know why the amount has changed?
So now what do I do? I would love to hear what someone who pays CS thinks. Do I go to court? I do not understand how the amount changed without any notice to me as to why? And why did it go down, when he is making more than he claims (evident from his income tax return)?
I am so confused. I am not greedy or wanting money, I wish he would own up to his responsibilities, then this would not be an issue at all. (play by the rules....)
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