Last year I worked a huge amount of OT as it was available from work, and I figured it would help pay down some of the bills my ex left me.
My ex was ok with this and didn't have any issues or concerns for me to pay more CS then. Well, she stole my mail (had it forwarded to her address and opened what she felt she could use to her advantage - which was pay stubs).
She saw the extra I earned and for this year, is expecting to pay that much more in CS even though my income this is is back to 'normal' (which is actually lower than when we originally calculated CS on the tables).
Can I just show her proof of lower income (pay stubs) and adjust accordingly? I can't afford a lawyer and if it was to go to court would only be able to represent myself.
If she manages to have me pay CS based on my earnings last year, that will end up being 3/4 of my monthly pay this year - not even enough to pay rent.
Any thoughts & advice is appreciated!
My ex was ok with this and didn't have any issues or concerns for me to pay more CS then. Well, she stole my mail (had it forwarded to her address and opened what she felt she could use to her advantage - which was pay stubs).
She saw the extra I earned and for this year, is expecting to pay that much more in CS even though my income this is is back to 'normal' (which is actually lower than when we originally calculated CS on the tables).
Can I just show her proof of lower income (pay stubs) and adjust accordingly? I can't afford a lawyer and if it was to go to court would only be able to represent myself.
If she manages to have me pay CS based on my earnings last year, that will end up being 3/4 of my monthly pay this year - not even enough to pay rent.
Any thoughts & advice is appreciated!
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