hi,
I just want some perspective on when the other side is self-repped and saying they "are looking" for a lawyer.
basically her 3rd lawyer announced retirement in september, and the case was not passed on within the firm, nor did she start looking then
bailed on mediation session the day before and paralyzed the case
she has 3 outstanding court orders against her:
1. has to file 2021 and 2022 taxes and provide them to me
2. cost award from previous motion
3. in summer I had to go to court to get disclosure. I won and it was ordered to be produced in a month, she refuses to comply..it is easy stuff, bank records, real estate transactions, would take an hour tops to get all the info
also refuses to update a knowingly false financial statement. Every single court order has been violated to date.
The ex is obviously self-entitled and does not think the rules apply to her. It makes it impossible for me to move this on to finality.
So we have a motion next Friday to seek non-compliance and enforcement of 1-3.
So 1 of 2 things will happen. A lawyer will magically show up the day before and stall things. Or 2, she will cry ignorance as she self reps.
Given the above and the repeated pattern of behavior, what can I expect if she asks for an adjournment. The money for the cost award is available and sitting in the trust from sale of our house and she owes me a massive EP. The orders are black and white, I am not sure what a lawyer showing up last minute can say to defend her especially since she has known we were seeking a non-compliance order related to taxes and disclosure (meaning if she produced everything ahead of next week, she could say she is clean)
Again...i appreciate the sentiment of trying to settle this and cost of lawyers..but I really am trying to reason with someone who cannot be reasoned with. We tried booking a settlement conference but she and her lawyer lied to the judge about the circumstances of the case..im serious
I just want some perspective on when the other side is self-repped and saying they "are looking" for a lawyer.
basically her 3rd lawyer announced retirement in september, and the case was not passed on within the firm, nor did she start looking then
bailed on mediation session the day before and paralyzed the case
she has 3 outstanding court orders against her:
1. has to file 2021 and 2022 taxes and provide them to me
2. cost award from previous motion
3. in summer I had to go to court to get disclosure. I won and it was ordered to be produced in a month, she refuses to comply..it is easy stuff, bank records, real estate transactions, would take an hour tops to get all the info
also refuses to update a knowingly false financial statement. Every single court order has been violated to date.
The ex is obviously self-entitled and does not think the rules apply to her. It makes it impossible for me to move this on to finality.
So we have a motion next Friday to seek non-compliance and enforcement of 1-3.
So 1 of 2 things will happen. A lawyer will magically show up the day before and stall things. Or 2, she will cry ignorance as she self reps.
Given the above and the repeated pattern of behavior, what can I expect if she asks for an adjournment. The money for the cost award is available and sitting in the trust from sale of our house and she owes me a massive EP. The orders are black and white, I am not sure what a lawyer showing up last minute can say to defend her especially since she has known we were seeking a non-compliance order related to taxes and disclosure (meaning if she produced everything ahead of next week, she could say she is clean)
Again...i appreciate the sentiment of trying to settle this and cost of lawyers..but I really am trying to reason with someone who cannot be reasoned with. We tried booking a settlement conference but she and her lawyer lied to the judge about the circumstances of the case..im serious
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