Hi everyone.
My first post here, so I will just ask one question that worries me for now.
We are pre-split, still residing with our son 2.5 yrs age
. I don't know when the separation will happen or if it will be contested to a previous date. But living conditions are hell.
My wife was on a hate rampage for awhile, late last year. I didn't know what to do and I was very stressed out. So I stupidly took 12k from my LOC and socked it away. But it gets stupider...
I stupidly let it slip what I had done and where I put it, to the husband of mutual friends. And it gets more stupid...
Being under constant verbal and emotional bombardment, I don't know to this day whether I moved it or my wife was told its location by our mutual friends and took it. Either way the cash is gone. I can live with that.
My question is should I disclose now pre-split that I lost the 12k that I had put away. Or better to put it on financials as one of my assets ?
It could happen that the mutual friend might disclose that at some point in the process. ( I no longer communicate with them ). Wife does though.
I realize it was a bonehead move and want to limit the damage to my credibility. I believe I will already lose more then half of what took a lifetime to save for 7 years of marriage.
Stupid is as stupid does...
ps. I am in the process of finding a lawyer.
My first post here, so I will just ask one question that worries me for now.
We are pre-split, still residing with our son 2.5 yrs age

My wife was on a hate rampage for awhile, late last year. I didn't know what to do and I was very stressed out. So I stupidly took 12k from my LOC and socked it away. But it gets stupider...
I stupidly let it slip what I had done and where I put it, to the husband of mutual friends. And it gets more stupid...
Being under constant verbal and emotional bombardment, I don't know to this day whether I moved it or my wife was told its location by our mutual friends and took it. Either way the cash is gone. I can live with that.
My question is should I disclose now pre-split that I lost the 12k that I had put away. Or better to put it on financials as one of my assets ?
It could happen that the mutual friend might disclose that at some point in the process. ( I no longer communicate with them ). Wife does though.
I realize it was a bonehead move and want to limit the damage to my credibility. I believe I will already lose more then half of what took a lifetime to save for 7 years of marriage.
Stupid is as stupid does...
ps. I am in the process of finding a lawyer.
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