His ex cannot deny him access to his kids. She can go to court to try but it wont happen. And if shes that difficult then good luck with your child support reduction because he wont succeed and will more than likely pay costs.
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[QUOTE=Berner_Faith;225621]Originally posted by Lolita123 View Post
That’s along the lines of what I expected your response to be. Truth is, his CS will not be reduced if kid#1 comes to live with you. Stop looking for a way to reduce his responsibilities and start looking for ways to make this work.
Honestly in the past 8 years I have been with my husband there have been times we didn’t have money for gas or bills and had to turn to my parents but guess what? We never missed one of his CS payments. That was always paid because those are his children.
Do you have cable? Internet? Cell phone? Do you go out at all? Basically if you pay anything above and beyond the absolute basics he will not qualify for undue hardship. It’s not about him making less than her or having less disposable income, undue hardship means you are about to lose your house. It’s very hard to prove and research would show you that
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Originally posted by rockscan View PostHis ex cannot deny him access to his kids. She can go to court to try but it wont happen. And if shes that difficult then good luck with your child support reduction because he wont succeed and will more than likely pay costs.
Dad not wanting to put the kids in a bad place says that he totally gets it.. loves them still.. and it's all ok...
she pulls that stunt once in a while when she's not happy about something... last time, was because he asked to change a evening access to the following day cause he had to work that evening on an emergency at work...
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This sounds like a truly pitiful situation.
Dad shouldn't work a second job???.... IMO he should work 3 jobs... whatever it takes to provide a decent standard of living for all these children he has created.
... writing is on the wall though... wonder how long till someone else gets pregnant.
Jeasus... this sounds like a shit-show
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Originally posted by arabian View PostThis sounds like a truly pitiful situation.
Dad shouldn't work a second job???.... IMO he should work 3 jobs... whatever it takes to provide a decent standard of living for all these children he has created.
... writing is on the wall though... wonder how long till someone else gets pregnant.
Jeasus... this sounds like a shit-show
And no worries dear... we are both fixed and ...so I guess that you are saying that everyone who had children with two different moms ..1 young add stupid but still stepped up...and then a marriage of 10 years with 2 children and they got cheated on should not get involved with anyone else ? Or only with people with no kids ?
I have 2 kids from the same father who cheated on me over and over again ... this man is a good man and has always been there for his kid...
Those children have a great standard of living ...at their moms... because the way the guidelines are made...look the way Quebec does it ..makes way more sense... both parent are taken into the equation and parenting time even less than 40% is considered into the equationequation-
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Do yourself a favor and worry less about how much the other mothers make/don't make. You knowingly got yourself into this situation. The other mother was smarter than you is all.
You sound very, very bitter. Hey you got your prince - now enjoy yourself!
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For what it’s worth... if Dad got a second job sure his CS would increase some but so would his disposable income. People act like if they get a second job they have to pay ALL of that in increased CS... that simply isn’t true.
Example:
Job one pays $50000, monthly CS for two kids is $755
Job two pays $10000, CS is increased to $915.
Monthly increase of $160, but Dad sees an increase of $670 a month after his increase in CS...
So instead of making an extra $600 a month dad doesn’t get a second job because mom would get an increase of $160 a month... makes sense?
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