A co-worker of mine has an ex wife that likes to make situations difficult.
They live in 2 different cities, an Hour apart. (the new order needs to be updated at HER city court)
They are through FRO and need to update the court order for a Child Support Increase.
He e-mailed her his 2016 NOA, telling her "Here is my 2016 income disclosure for you to update the court order"
She e-mailed back telling him "It's YOUR Responsibility to update the court order"
I told him that I think he should just start paying the EXTRA increase Child Support Monthly amount to FRO on the day it is supposed to take place.............That way all the money will be there, waiting for her to update the court order.
Is that suggestion logical???
(In the past he did the Consent Motion paper work and would send it to her to sign...............She would play games.....telling him that he needed to re-do the paper work because she did not like the color of ink/ wanted him to sign before her, etc..................Makes No Sense for her to prolong it, As She Was Getting Increases!!!)
But it resulted in him having to make unnecessary extra driving trips to her city (an hour away) before eventually having her sign the papers.....and he would file it at her city court.
(At that time he was on afternoon shift...so he was available during the morning/early day to do it)
Now he is on Day Shift.....so he is NOT available during the week days.........nor should he have to lose a day or more of pay (good chance she will play those games again...expecting him to make extra unnecessary driving trips to her city)
(She is on Afternoon Shift and available to drive the 5 min to the court to file it all obviously)
They live in 2 different cities, an Hour apart. (the new order needs to be updated at HER city court)
They are through FRO and need to update the court order for a Child Support Increase.
He e-mailed her his 2016 NOA, telling her "Here is my 2016 income disclosure for you to update the court order"
She e-mailed back telling him "It's YOUR Responsibility to update the court order"
I told him that I think he should just start paying the EXTRA increase Child Support Monthly amount to FRO on the day it is supposed to take place.............That way all the money will be there, waiting for her to update the court order.
Is that suggestion logical???
(In the past he did the Consent Motion paper work and would send it to her to sign...............She would play games.....telling him that he needed to re-do the paper work because she did not like the color of ink/ wanted him to sign before her, etc..................Makes No Sense for her to prolong it, As She Was Getting Increases!!!)
But it resulted in him having to make unnecessary extra driving trips to her city (an hour away) before eventually having her sign the papers.....and he would file it at her city court.
(At that time he was on afternoon shift...so he was available during the morning/early day to do it)
Now he is on Day Shift.....so he is NOT available during the week days.........nor should he have to lose a day or more of pay (good chance she will play those games again...expecting him to make extra unnecessary driving trips to her city)
(She is on Afternoon Shift and available to drive the 5 min to the court to file it all obviously)
Comment