I took the kids out for lunch today for pizza as they had the day off of school today. During lunch S7 said to me "I really miss pizza....I don't get it at school anymore"... my initially question was, was it due to the school not offering it anymore? I know schools around where we live, stopped pizza and went to ho lunches and pita day, for healthier choices... S7 said no that he doesn't get it anymore because now that his sibling started school Mom cannot afford it...
To be honest, I am not 100% sure how much it actually costs, but I do know on paper she makes a good wage, but obviously has expenses...
I was talking to bf about offering to pay for the pizza lunches for the kids... they don't have to know it came from us as we don't wish to make it seem like when Mom doesn't have the money come to Dad... but what his worry is, stuff like this should be paid for my CS... now it is obviously at Mom's discretion on how she spends CS, but would us paying for the pizza days set him up for other school expenses that should be covered?
We are not out to undermined Mom, but if it is not expensive we don't mind helping out in that way... next year his CS obligations will basically triple because of his new job, at that time she should be able to more than afford these extra things... do we take the high road and just pay or should we just leave well enough alone and let Mom decide?
To be honest, I am not 100% sure how much it actually costs, but I do know on paper she makes a good wage, but obviously has expenses...
I was talking to bf about offering to pay for the pizza lunches for the kids... they don't have to know it came from us as we don't wish to make it seem like when Mom doesn't have the money come to Dad... but what his worry is, stuff like this should be paid for my CS... now it is obviously at Mom's discretion on how she spends CS, but would us paying for the pizza days set him up for other school expenses that should be covered?
We are not out to undermined Mom, but if it is not expensive we don't mind helping out in that way... next year his CS obligations will basically triple because of his new job, at that time she should be able to more than afford these extra things... do we take the high road and just pay or should we just leave well enough alone and let Mom decide?
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