My husband and I are separating and I think it will be civil. We want a separation agreement and he wants no lawyers but I have an appt with one in April. I am looking for some general info. We have been married 15 years and have two kids10- and 7. I make about 45k and he makes aroud 110k we will share custody 50/50. When I go to the guidelines if you take what he would pay and then I the difference is about $800 a month. Is this fair with 50% split on sports, daycare etc. Also the cash , house equity is split 50/50. Here is where is could get nasty. I want him to keep the insurance we have on each other, also keep me on his insurance through work and the final is splitting his pension. He has been working 21 years in the school board and brags about his pension. with being over 90k the last 5 years. Is there a way to value this without using an actuary and if not what info will I need. Also any math experts out there do you have an idea of what his pension for the 15 years would be worth and is it better to have him buy out my share or waite for retirement. he is 47 and I am 43 and with just house and cash not counting about 60k in Rsp's I will leave with about 200k
Any other info would really help
Any other info would really help
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