I am receiving these e-mails from my STBX, they typically appear the night before communication comes from his lawyer. I ignore most of what he says, however, they usually have his opinion of what he believes the law to be and how the court will look unfavorably on me and agree with him. This current e-mail states that if I don’t sign immediately he will pursue court action.
The presence of these e-mails causes a good deal of stress for me and distracts me from making a decision on the issues at hand so that I can seek clarification and information regarding the content of his e-mails.
What I am asking is I want to instruct my lawyer to send an e-mail to his lawyer telling my STBX to stop sending e-mails. I will also be asking to have a clause removed that states “that there has been no circumstance of oppression, pressure that would suggest that there has been an imbalance in the negotiating of this agreement.”
Should I do this?
And
What is occupational rent?
In the latest e-mail from my STBX, he says he “will be seeking the full costs of litigation and occupational rent for the time I have lived in the house.” He moved out in December 2008 and I have been paying all the household bills, there is no mortgage on the house.
The presence of these e-mails causes a good deal of stress for me and distracts me from making a decision on the issues at hand so that I can seek clarification and information regarding the content of his e-mails.
What I am asking is I want to instruct my lawyer to send an e-mail to his lawyer telling my STBX to stop sending e-mails. I will also be asking to have a clause removed that states “that there has been no circumstance of oppression, pressure that would suggest that there has been an imbalance in the negotiating of this agreement.”
Should I do this?
And
What is occupational rent?
In the latest e-mail from my STBX, he says he “will be seeking the full costs of litigation and occupational rent for the time I have lived in the house.” He moved out in December 2008 and I have been paying all the household bills, there is no mortgage on the house.
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