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I have a 9 year old that wants to live with me. I have raquested 4 times to get an OLC and my ex refuses to get one for our daughter. He is afraid the the"truth" will come out. He has put me into an "almost a broke state". I am still wondering how I ended up in this mess, A legal battle that just won't go away. Every other day I get a new letter from opposing counsel. he want to get rid of my spousal support. I can't work yet as I have anxiety issues thanks to him. I had to give him my kids as I could no longer pay my mortgage and utilities and it was getting to the point that the food started to be an issue. My ex decreased, without an order, all the support by 2/3 of what I was suppose to get. "Due to the economic downturn. W/E
2 1/2 years ago we got separated (after 11 years of him having adultry). Until March'08 he said I can't take this any longer. Marriage, the kids bla bla bla. So we both went to seek counsel. His lawyer made up a pathetic separation agreement and my lawyer advised me not to sign it but what happened with me is that My EX also said that I could go and look for a house. He would give me half of the proceeds of the sale...but not to go after his RRSP's So, 2 1/2 years later I dont even know what else he wants, he has kept me in the courts or the lawyers office always defending the most supid things. 60K later im not ahead any further but now I don't own a house, don't have my kids(couldn't afford them as he never payed his section 7 and put me iinto over 30k in debt. I sent him to the FRO...so now he wants me to sign that paper to releive him from any past due money. If that's the only thing I have left to hold on to, then I'm not letting him off. The lawyers ate all my assets. and Now he has all three of my kids that I didn't want him to have. I moved to Alberta as there are more opportunities for employment and a better life for my little one, as the older ones wanted to stay in Ontario as all their friends are there and I respect that but, my 9 year old who was solely raised by me as her father was never home and always travelling (so he calls it) SHe wrote a letter to the judge to listen to her. All she wants is to live with mommy. She is very tight with me (at least she was), she's not allowed to talk to me, her father won't let her. We tried the OCL but again he had to approve the OCL..I am devestated the I had to leave all my kids with their dad as they are being shipped around from family member to family member to care for her. It would of been so damn easy if he would put his vengence aside and let the 9 year old live with her mommy especially as those were her wishes. So where is the law for the little ones. She has been taken away from her stability, to being a back seat passanger, with the aunt(who has three little boys herself), all night after school. I cant get her back, he won't let me talk to her. I bought her a cell phone and even then he won't let her talk to me. He is a control freak. Any suggestiions.
Everyday I wonder...what did I do to deserve this. NOTHING. My EX is just a revengeful person who won't stop until all the blood is sucked out of my body.
2 1/2 years ago we got separated (after 11 years of him having adultry). Until March'08 he said I can't take this any longer. Marriage, the kids bla bla bla. So we both went to seek counsel. His lawyer made up a pathetic separation agreement and my lawyer advised me not to sign it but what happened with me is that My EX also said that I could go and look for a house. He would give me half of the proceeds of the sale...but not to go after his RRSP's So, 2 1/2 years later I dont even know what else he wants, he has kept me in the courts or the lawyers office always defending the most supid things. 60K later im not ahead any further but now I don't own a house, don't have my kids(couldn't afford them as he never payed his section 7 and put me iinto over 30k in debt. I sent him to the FRO...so now he wants me to sign that paper to releive him from any past due money. If that's the only thing I have left to hold on to, then I'm not letting him off. The lawyers ate all my assets. and Now he has all three of my kids that I didn't want him to have. I moved to Alberta as there are more opportunities for employment and a better life for my little one, as the older ones wanted to stay in Ontario as all their friends are there and I respect that but, my 9 year old who was solely raised by me as her father was never home and always travelling (so he calls it) SHe wrote a letter to the judge to listen to her. All she wants is to live with mommy. She is very tight with me (at least she was), she's not allowed to talk to me, her father won't let her. We tried the OCL but again he had to approve the OCL..I am devestated the I had to leave all my kids with their dad as they are being shipped around from family member to family member to care for her. It would of been so damn easy if he would put his vengence aside and let the 9 year old live with her mommy especially as those were her wishes. So where is the law for the little ones. She has been taken away from her stability, to being a back seat passanger, with the aunt(who has three little boys herself), all night after school. I cant get her back, he won't let me talk to her. I bought her a cell phone and even then he won't let her talk to me. He is a control freak. Any suggestiions.
Everyday I wonder...what did I do to deserve this. NOTHING. My EX is just a revengeful person who won't stop until all the blood is sucked out of my body.
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