I want to give everyone here some sound advice that I wish someone had given me almost two years ago!
During the course of all of my separation, selling of assets, custody issues etc etc etc, I have been inundated with extremely nasty letters from my X's different lawyers. These took a huge toll on me, and more importantly my new partner. It hurt our relationship, and it hurt her relationship with my children due to the accusations of poor parenting, etc. A number of months ago, I was at my lawyers and asked "Do I legally have to be informed of all of these things they are saying about us, and threatening to do?" My lawyer smirked and said "NOPE!"
From that day on, I have not heard or read anything from them, and it has been absolute bliss. My partner and I are living our life with my children, and our son, everyone gets along better every day.
What makes it most enjoyable, is that I see my X at the children's events and sports, and I begin to giggle when she scowls at me with that "I've shown and told you!" look, and I'm oblivious to it.
She has spent a fortune sending all these letters to me, and I haven't a clue! ahahahaha!
Take it from me friends....live your new life with ALL of your children, focus on your new partner or life, and isolate yourself from the nonsense.
There is nothing in those letters you need to know about
I hate to say it, but it wouldn't surprise me if those same types of letters are what causes some of the violence that sadly surounds divorce.
During the course of all of my separation, selling of assets, custody issues etc etc etc, I have been inundated with extremely nasty letters from my X's different lawyers. These took a huge toll on me, and more importantly my new partner. It hurt our relationship, and it hurt her relationship with my children due to the accusations of poor parenting, etc. A number of months ago, I was at my lawyers and asked "Do I legally have to be informed of all of these things they are saying about us, and threatening to do?" My lawyer smirked and said "NOPE!"
From that day on, I have not heard or read anything from them, and it has been absolute bliss. My partner and I are living our life with my children, and our son, everyone gets along better every day.
What makes it most enjoyable, is that I see my X at the children's events and sports, and I begin to giggle when she scowls at me with that "I've shown and told you!" look, and I'm oblivious to it.

Take it from me friends....live your new life with ALL of your children, focus on your new partner or life, and isolate yourself from the nonsense.
There is nothing in those letters you need to know about

I hate to say it, but it wouldn't surprise me if those same types of letters are what causes some of the violence that sadly surounds divorce.
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