A general questions for all of you...since I am new at this divorce business with a baby that's only 4 months old. I want to see if there is any light at the end of the tunnel.
My ex never participated at any care for my son while I was home, abusive, controlling, I had to take the baby and leave because I couldn't deal with it anymore. Now that he is mad at me for leaving and trying to claim how much he loves the baby and wanted time with him( to win a joint custody), however in fact he 1) hasn't paid any child support 2) has always complained about the drive he has to do to come and see the baby 3) misses a lot of opportunities to see the baby because of "work" ( in reality, golf, trips...etc). And NO he doesn't want to take care of the baby more than 2 hours....
I heard from others that once the ex moves on and gets into a new relationship it will get better? Is this true? or would he want to show off he is a "super daddy" and gets even more controlling by wanting to have the kid all the time?
Would you please kindly share your experiences, if you also have a narcissistic, immature, and abusive/controlling ex? How has the post-seperation been with a young kid involved.
My ex never participated at any care for my son while I was home, abusive, controlling, I had to take the baby and leave because I couldn't deal with it anymore. Now that he is mad at me for leaving and trying to claim how much he loves the baby and wanted time with him( to win a joint custody), however in fact he 1) hasn't paid any child support 2) has always complained about the drive he has to do to come and see the baby 3) misses a lot of opportunities to see the baby because of "work" ( in reality, golf, trips...etc). And NO he doesn't want to take care of the baby more than 2 hours....
I heard from others that once the ex moves on and gets into a new relationship it will get better? Is this true? or would he want to show off he is a "super daddy" and gets even more controlling by wanting to have the kid all the time?
Would you please kindly share your experiences, if you also have a narcissistic, immature, and abusive/controlling ex? How has the post-seperation been with a young kid involved.
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