So first Id like to say Hello ! Bear with me cause this could b long and if u need more info to help me out pls just ask !
So my boyfriend just split with his girlfriend around Christmas time and this is his little "situation".
They were together for about 6yrs off and on, first 2 yrs being great, yr 3,4 & 5 rocky and yr 6 pure hell. They lived together for the first 2yrs continuisly and then for the yrs 3 to 5 they had a few split ups and yr 6 he basically lived with his parents again like every other time they split up.
The first couple yrs she did work and made good money, she then went on workers comp for an injury at work where they paid for her to b re-schooled. He paid all the household bills and also was giving her money for everything totalling around $1000 a mth or whatever she figured she needed. Even when the would split up he would pay her money every month to keep her happy and try to help her get back on her feet. When her schooling was done she never found a job, didnt try to I mean why would she he was paying her to do what ever she wanted! I should mention the fact he is a truck driver and was only ever home for the weekends if that. He had bought his own transport and was paying it off himself as well as everything else.
First question ! How does he prove he wasnt living with her continuosly for 3 yrs to b considdered common -law ?
Second question - if she was collecting welfair for a single person when they split but he was still giving her $$ every mth to help her out is it something worth bringing up in court?
#3- since she thinks she needs spousal support even tho shes capable of working but wont how does that tend to play out? he makes around $180K a yr but its threw his buisness and after all expences he claims only $25 k a yr of personal income for his tax's and has for the last 5yrs hes owned the truck.
More background lol. All debts are in his name except her car but he is the co-signer on it. He is now in debt around $65 thousand to credit cards, bank loan, and buisness tax's for the last 3yrs. She ows 1yr on the car which he pays and the insurance anyways. he also owes another approx $10 thousand to well friends and family trying to help him out. He made the money she spent the money and when ur not home and dont see the bills coming in the mail and trust someone is paying the things they say they are with the money u r giving them but turns out their not, well this is the situation u end up in I guess lol.
Another tid bit of info ! She was charged in August 2010 for 2 counts of assult against him, OPP charged her after he went to them for advise and to make sure she was ok, she had been threatening suicide before and after the altercation. She was and still is addicted to meth and really needs to deal with alot of other life issues she has, and because of that says she is mentally un able to work.... Dr's say she fine.
She wants $1000 mth
, car paid for and insurance, vet bills paid for the dog that hes not aloowed access to lol, her car fixed and maintained. For 2 yrs minimum !
k so i think thats all thats important for now lol.
Thank You to anyone that takes the tme to read this and please by all means ask questions and give advise if u can.
And yes him and I are both well aware that he was a complete and total idiot for putting up with her for as ong as he did..... but thats wut u do I guess when u love someone!
So my boyfriend just split with his girlfriend around Christmas time and this is his little "situation".
They were together for about 6yrs off and on, first 2 yrs being great, yr 3,4 & 5 rocky and yr 6 pure hell. They lived together for the first 2yrs continuisly and then for the yrs 3 to 5 they had a few split ups and yr 6 he basically lived with his parents again like every other time they split up.
The first couple yrs she did work and made good money, she then went on workers comp for an injury at work where they paid for her to b re-schooled. He paid all the household bills and also was giving her money for everything totalling around $1000 a mth or whatever she figured she needed. Even when the would split up he would pay her money every month to keep her happy and try to help her get back on her feet. When her schooling was done she never found a job, didnt try to I mean why would she he was paying her to do what ever she wanted! I should mention the fact he is a truck driver and was only ever home for the weekends if that. He had bought his own transport and was paying it off himself as well as everything else.
First question ! How does he prove he wasnt living with her continuosly for 3 yrs to b considdered common -law ?
Second question - if she was collecting welfair for a single person when they split but he was still giving her $$ every mth to help her out is it something worth bringing up in court?
#3- since she thinks she needs spousal support even tho shes capable of working but wont how does that tend to play out? he makes around $180K a yr but its threw his buisness and after all expences he claims only $25 k a yr of personal income for his tax's and has for the last 5yrs hes owned the truck.
More background lol. All debts are in his name except her car but he is the co-signer on it. He is now in debt around $65 thousand to credit cards, bank loan, and buisness tax's for the last 3yrs. She ows 1yr on the car which he pays and the insurance anyways. he also owes another approx $10 thousand to well friends and family trying to help him out. He made the money she spent the money and when ur not home and dont see the bills coming in the mail and trust someone is paying the things they say they are with the money u r giving them but turns out their not, well this is the situation u end up in I guess lol.
Another tid bit of info ! She was charged in August 2010 for 2 counts of assult against him, OPP charged her after he went to them for advise and to make sure she was ok, she had been threatening suicide before and after the altercation. She was and still is addicted to meth and really needs to deal with alot of other life issues she has, and because of that says she is mentally un able to work.... Dr's say she fine.
She wants $1000 mth
, car paid for and insurance, vet bills paid for the dog that hes not aloowed access to lol, her car fixed and maintained. For 2 yrs minimum !
k so i think thats all thats important for now lol.
Thank You to anyone that takes the tme to read this and please by all means ask questions and give advise if u can.
And yes him and I are both well aware that he was a complete and total idiot for putting up with her for as ong as he did..... but thats wut u do I guess when u love someone!
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