ok, so I've read over it many times, edited and changed it. Now, I am trying to make sure it's ready to go. Once this form is filed..is that it? I can't go back and request something different? The reason I ask is that the ex and I have never gotten along, a lot of conflict. There are also safety issues.
In the form, I am asking for joint custody on certain conditions and work up to more time than he currently has. My question is- If I am asking for joint on the conditions and he meets the conditions but he continues to be extremely difficult, combative, verbally abusive etc...can I somewhere in the process ask for sole and just say that joint isn't working? Or would that be a whole new motion? I just don't want to ask for sole right away, would like to give him the chance to prove himself and start over. But...I am worried if I do that, it will end by him saying "f** u, now that I have power I'm taking control" Kinda thing. It has been terrible whenever we try to come to agreement on anything.
In the form, I am asking for joint custody on certain conditions and work up to more time than he currently has. My question is- If I am asking for joint on the conditions and he meets the conditions but he continues to be extremely difficult, combative, verbally abusive etc...can I somewhere in the process ask for sole and just say that joint isn't working? Or would that be a whole new motion? I just don't want to ask for sole right away, would like to give him the chance to prove himself and start over. But...I am worried if I do that, it will end by him saying "f** u, now that I have power I'm taking control" Kinda thing. It has been terrible whenever we try to come to agreement on anything.
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