Not many talk success story's.
Trial was pending, I spoke to the Trial Co-ordinator and said that because I forced a immediate first appearance trial date, the ex found it difficult.....I presume.
I said to the trial co-ordinator that the respondent wishes to try and settle matters to avoid trial.
The co-ordinator was more than happy to do what was needed to get me on the next date to settle matters avoiding trial.
I tried to make sure all matters were agreed upon. I did give some but I stuck to the belief that what I am fighting for was for my babies.
We went in today, and I brought my Minutes of Settlement, and what I brought was questioned and picked apart by both Duty Council Lawyers even though we both agreed.
I took the advantage and found out for the first time in a year and a half that out Court offers "free" mediation, which no judge nor lawyer said was available....so taking this advantage, we agreed upon many aspects, which a few really hit hard on my ex for believing what she did.
The Mediator even said that Relocation is most often based upon the same neighbourhood or at most the next neighbourhood to maintain a stable lifestyle for child(ren). Even my 30km allowance could be questioned in the Judges eye to maintain this stability. It was the Judge I had for the past 2 years who didn't care either way that allowed my case to fall through the cracks.
More importantly, I emplore everyone to seek this mediation while in litigation. If you can afford mediation, go for it but do the homework on them, I was lucky because the woman I saw has been doing this for children for 30 years and loved the judge as a friend whome I was saying was about to take my Trial case...she said he was "just" and nice and always for the "children" first.
I love all whome helped me here. I have one last fight left. I need to file to the Law Society of Upper Canada because the Lawyer I hired was an ass and put me further behind than on my own. He is and ass and in the end, it took "truth" and my wife to win me my case.
IT TOOK CONCERNEDSTEPMOM78 TO WIN MY CASE. NOBODY COULD HAVE DONE IT MORE WONDERFUL THAN HER. ANYONE WHO SAID DIFFERENT IS A LOSER OR SOMEONE WHO IS FAILING.....SHE WON ME MY BABIES. THANK YOU CONCERNEDSTEPMOM78......
To anyoene saying anything negative to Stepmom78, owes her my life for my two children. Everything she did was all I needed......all the way.
I love all the help everyone helped me in here with.
I am more than pissed off at the "shit" anyone here spoke, they had "no" facts and vented their own garbage toward my own need, that is where this forum failed. Give up your hatred and losses and help, stop pretending to be lawyers when you are a losing nobody....like me.
Just ask for help, give advice where needed and shut the heck up when you wish vent your garbage.....you did more damange to me than you could ever know.
Mediators.....LV....fire yourself, you are a pompus person who I thought was there to help but you did more damage than anyone here and I will voice this. ConcernedMom78 is NOT anyone else but her, if you felt she had an alt, you need to remove yourself from your own alts and stop casting your own guilt on others....I divorced my wife who had too many alts and lovers.....
IPP You are this formum's GODDESS.....I love you for always. Everyone needs you.
Trial was pending, I spoke to the Trial Co-ordinator and said that because I forced a immediate first appearance trial date, the ex found it difficult.....I presume.
I said to the trial co-ordinator that the respondent wishes to try and settle matters to avoid trial.
The co-ordinator was more than happy to do what was needed to get me on the next date to settle matters avoiding trial.
I tried to make sure all matters were agreed upon. I did give some but I stuck to the belief that what I am fighting for was for my babies.
We went in today, and I brought my Minutes of Settlement, and what I brought was questioned and picked apart by both Duty Council Lawyers even though we both agreed.
I took the advantage and found out for the first time in a year and a half that out Court offers "free" mediation, which no judge nor lawyer said was available....so taking this advantage, we agreed upon many aspects, which a few really hit hard on my ex for believing what she did.
The Mediator even said that Relocation is most often based upon the same neighbourhood or at most the next neighbourhood to maintain a stable lifestyle for child(ren). Even my 30km allowance could be questioned in the Judges eye to maintain this stability. It was the Judge I had for the past 2 years who didn't care either way that allowed my case to fall through the cracks.
More importantly, I emplore everyone to seek this mediation while in litigation. If you can afford mediation, go for it but do the homework on them, I was lucky because the woman I saw has been doing this for children for 30 years and loved the judge as a friend whome I was saying was about to take my Trial case...she said he was "just" and nice and always for the "children" first.
I love all whome helped me here. I have one last fight left. I need to file to the Law Society of Upper Canada because the Lawyer I hired was an ass and put me further behind than on my own. He is and ass and in the end, it took "truth" and my wife to win me my case.
IT TOOK CONCERNEDSTEPMOM78 TO WIN MY CASE. NOBODY COULD HAVE DONE IT MORE WONDERFUL THAN HER. ANYONE WHO SAID DIFFERENT IS A LOSER OR SOMEONE WHO IS FAILING.....SHE WON ME MY BABIES. THANK YOU CONCERNEDSTEPMOM78......
To anyoene saying anything negative to Stepmom78, owes her my life for my two children. Everything she did was all I needed......all the way.
I love all the help everyone helped me in here with.
I am more than pissed off at the "shit" anyone here spoke, they had "no" facts and vented their own garbage toward my own need, that is where this forum failed. Give up your hatred and losses and help, stop pretending to be lawyers when you are a losing nobody....like me.
Just ask for help, give advice where needed and shut the heck up when you wish vent your garbage.....you did more damange to me than you could ever know.
Mediators.....LV....fire yourself, you are a pompus person who I thought was there to help but you did more damage than anyone here and I will voice this. ConcernedMom78 is NOT anyone else but her, if you felt she had an alt, you need to remove yourself from your own alts and stop casting your own guilt on others....I divorced my wife who had too many alts and lovers.....
IPP You are this formum's GODDESS.....I love you for always. Everyone needs you.
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