Ok, so I call my daughter on her bday at 7 pm as per the agreement, ex has interim custody. My son answers and I inform him that I will be picking them up in 30 minutes. She rips the phone from his hand and tells me im not going to see my daughter on her bday as per our argeement the night before. I try calling back several times but she keeps hanging up on me. The day after, I get arrested at work for criminal harasement. She claims she warned me not to call back to wish my daughter happy bday.Bull shit. She claims she's real scared for her safety and my children. Bull shit. She sends me a text later on the evening after i stop calling telling me im not going to see our children as per the kids wishes for that weekend. I end up in the big house overnight. Can't see my childrern until C.A.S. investigates. One week later C.A.S. meets with my children 10 and 12 yrl. Day after, 10 am CAS meets with me. 11 am CAS tells me I can resume visitations right away. 2:30 pm pick up my kids from school, my weekend.I ask CAS what was told to my children about this incident. CAS worker informs me ex told the kids not to worry about it. Find out from son and daughter that afternoon ex's mother was there pushing her to call the cops, in front of my children. Ex told them the cops put me in jail cause I called to many times and she had a restraining order against me (not true) and would not be seeing their dad for long time. Contact CAS and ask why children have fairly accurate details of incident, worker says thats not the info ex gave her and leaves it at that.
Ex shows up for the Case Conference (that she requested) scheduled the day after my arrest. Obviously im not there, im in court for bail hearing ( at bail hearing ,family friend, there to pick me up hears crown lawyer say this man should not be here, this is a bogus charge) pleaded not guilty.Day after, call family law clerk, find out Judge proceeded with case conference without my presence and schedules next conference at end of month. Judge asks why im not there yet, ex tells him im in prison.
Is this coincidence.
Can this play in her favore in family law court?
Other than love for my children, patience and hope that she will be discovered for the DEAD BEAT MOM that she is, what am i to do
This is so @$%^&*#@"""@#$%^&*&^$%#$@# frustrating.
Ex shows up for the Case Conference (that she requested) scheduled the day after my arrest. Obviously im not there, im in court for bail hearing ( at bail hearing ,family friend, there to pick me up hears crown lawyer say this man should not be here, this is a bogus charge) pleaded not guilty.Day after, call family law clerk, find out Judge proceeded with case conference without my presence and schedules next conference at end of month. Judge asks why im not there yet, ex tells him im in prison.
Is this coincidence.
Can this play in her favore in family law court?
Other than love for my children, patience and hope that she will be discovered for the DEAD BEAT MOM that she is, what am i to do
This is so @$%^&*#@"""@#$%^&*&^$%#$@# frustrating.
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