I have an unfortunate situation where my ex husband is saying inappropriate things to our daughter during their phone conversations. ie: lying, bashing her mother, involving her in adult issue, putting her in the middle...etc etc.)
She is seeing a child pychologist to help her through the divorce issue and he has identified that things that my ex is doing is affecting her emotional well being. I have discussed these issues with my ex but he wont listen to me and will not change his behaviour in front of my daughter. So I have started to tape any phone conversations and have all emails etc he has with me as I was advised this is legal.
My question is.....Can I legally tape phone conversations he has with my daughter if I let him know that I will be doing so?
I know he will flip out at this and probably involve my daughter in it which I do not want. But I feel I need to have some documentation as to what is going on if I need to take any matter before the court to protect her from the emotional abuse she is enduring.
Could he stop me from taping the convos legally?
I just need help as to what to do here to protect her from this.
The pychologist has talked to him and discussed the harm this is doing but he still continues to do it. But without concrete documentation we both dont feel we would get anywhere with the court as it is "he said. she said" scenario.
Any help or advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
She is seeing a child pychologist to help her through the divorce issue and he has identified that things that my ex is doing is affecting her emotional well being. I have discussed these issues with my ex but he wont listen to me and will not change his behaviour in front of my daughter. So I have started to tape any phone conversations and have all emails etc he has with me as I was advised this is legal.
My question is.....Can I legally tape phone conversations he has with my daughter if I let him know that I will be doing so?
I know he will flip out at this and probably involve my daughter in it which I do not want. But I feel I need to have some documentation as to what is going on if I need to take any matter before the court to protect her from the emotional abuse she is enduring.
Could he stop me from taping the convos legally?
I just need help as to what to do here to protect her from this.
The pychologist has talked to him and discussed the harm this is doing but he still continues to do it. But without concrete documentation we both dont feel we would get anywhere with the court as it is "he said. she said" scenario.
Any help or advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
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