I've been separated for almost a year and a half. Things with my ex are very volatile. She has always interfered with my contact with my 6 year old son. So much so that I contacted family services and tried to set up mediation so that we could work out an arrangement so that I could spend time with him. My ex refused this mediation.
I tried calling my child for months but to no avail. She wouldn't allow me to speak to him. The ONLY time I actually talked to my son was when he was visiting his grandparents ( my folks ) and that was rare.
About 2 months ago I tried calling her house again to speak to my child. This was after I received court papers where she was declaring that she had no problem with me talking to him and she encouraged it. With her words in mind I started calling and that worked for about 2 weeks. Then, suddenly, every evening when I would call my child ( always a half hour before his bedtime) she wasn't answering the phone. I got lucky once when I decided to call at a different time than I usually would...and my son answered the phone. Even then she took the phone from him after 5 minutes and said that " he's done talking to you" and then she hung up. Since then I've called my parents on the days I know he's going to be there. The past two times my little boy is saying " I'm not interested " and he won't come to the phone. This is a new thing and he's never said anything like this before. I know she's telling him to say this. It breaks my heart to hear him say this....
In the affadavits she is saying that she encourages my contact with my son yet this is what I am getting. How do I show the judge that what she is saying is simply not true? Do you think it helps that I tried to set up mediatioin yet she refused?
I feel so lost and I am terrified that with time, she will turn my son completely against me! How do I get someone to make her stop this before it's too late!
I tried calling my child for months but to no avail. She wouldn't allow me to speak to him. The ONLY time I actually talked to my son was when he was visiting his grandparents ( my folks ) and that was rare.
About 2 months ago I tried calling her house again to speak to my child. This was after I received court papers where she was declaring that she had no problem with me talking to him and she encouraged it. With her words in mind I started calling and that worked for about 2 weeks. Then, suddenly, every evening when I would call my child ( always a half hour before his bedtime) she wasn't answering the phone. I got lucky once when I decided to call at a different time than I usually would...and my son answered the phone. Even then she took the phone from him after 5 minutes and said that " he's done talking to you" and then she hung up. Since then I've called my parents on the days I know he's going to be there. The past two times my little boy is saying " I'm not interested " and he won't come to the phone. This is a new thing and he's never said anything like this before. I know she's telling him to say this. It breaks my heart to hear him say this....
In the affadavits she is saying that she encourages my contact with my son yet this is what I am getting. How do I show the judge that what she is saying is simply not true? Do you think it helps that I tried to set up mediatioin yet she refused?
I feel so lost and I am terrified that with time, she will turn my son completely against me! How do I get someone to make her stop this before it's too late!
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