FRO enforcement

[Underdog]

My ex and I have no agreement (on anything), nor do we have any court orders.

Can ex apply with FRO to collect Child Support and other expenses ? and can FRO enforce it without such agreement / order ?

[representingself]

Nope

FRO enforces court orders....

[Notadeadbeatdad]

FRO only follows court orders.

[Underdog]

Glad to hear that....

However, just to make sure that she doesn't have a recourse... Currently, I'm making cs payments that was estimated by a mediator (in open mediation). However, we have not officially agreed to CS payments.

Can she take mediation notes to FRO and the fact that I have been making payments and have them enforce CS based on that ?

[Kenny]

FRO enforcement

Unfortunately, FRO will only enforce an agreement registered with the court.

Another very important point: If you are paying child support outside of any court order, it is very very important that you make sure that you can prove the money you are paying is for child support.

I paid child support from 2000 to 2004, when my ex-spouse discovered that any money not documented as child support could be just considered a gift. So right she was, I received a letter from the FSOS New Brunswick demanding $53,000.00 in arrears child support.

After several meetings and a support hearing, the ONLY reason I got "off-the-hook" was because I made electronic payments through my military pay office where the notes on my file made reference to the court order, the amounts went to my ex-spouse's bank account and the amounts were the same as the court order. If any of those items had been missed, I may have owed the money again.

NEVER USE CASH. If you are using checks, use the memo section to indicate child support, the amount and for what month.

Ken

[spiritflower]

Wow! It is no wonder that so many men here think that woman are snakes.
Thats just out and out WRONG and disgraceful
I am really not sure how people live with themselves after screwing a significant other over, even if it is an ex.

Humanity sucks.

[billiechic]

FYI: you should not use "men" and "women" in the above statement. It should be "payors" and "payees".

yes, it is disgusting!

[NotSoNiceEx]

The same thing happened to my husband, he paid his ex outside of a courtorder table amounts for the seven months before the order, in court the judge congratulated him for making the effort to care for his children without an order, then the ex told FRO she never received any monies for child support, when my husband sent them the bank receipts and money orders to her account, she claimed it was given as gifts. He then had an arrears that they garnisheed from his paycheque, more than half each month while trying to live, (she kicked him out). Anyways, do not pay the receipient any money directly only through FRO.

[spiritflower]

FYI: you should not use "men" and "women" in the above statement. It should be "payors" and "payees".

yes, it is disgusting!

No disrespect billiechic but since I am expressing MYSELF I will use whatever words I choose.

Thanks

[billiechic]

Go right ahead, express yourself. You just look sexist then if that is exactly what you meant. Be prepared for some choice comments.

I for one (woman) and offended that you agree with that generalization. It is not "women" who are snakes, but payees that screw over payors who actually pay their CS. WTH then am I ( a woman who is a payor!)???

[leafsrule]

The only way FRO will enforce something is if you and your ex went to a settlement conference, an agreement was made and then that agreement was made into a court order. Then it could be enforced by FRO. The hard part would be getting him into a settlement conference but you can try different ways to get this done.

[spiritflower]

Go right ahead, express yourself. You just look sexist then if that is exactly what you meant. Be prepared for some choice comments.

I for one (woman) and offended that you agree with that generalization. It is not "women" who are snakes, but payees that screw over payors who actually pay their CS. WTH then am I



( a woman who is a payor!)???

BIG **** ing deal!
You want a hero biscuit or what?????


If THIS is how you feel then it is YOUR issue not mine so please keep it to yourself.

You obviously must be someone REAL important here........

The politically correct 'word' princess payor.

Oh so special

[representingself]

Hey Spiritflower...

I don't know who shit in your cornflakes this morning.... but you are acting like a imbecile.

There is no need for you to fly off the handle at people just because you disagree with them.

You are deliberately trying to antagonize people who already have enough shit on their plates.

If you want to ask sincere questions and reciprocate with honest advice, then have at it....

If you want to be a useless jackass, then take your bullshit elsewhere, because it is not welcome here.

[spiritflower]

Hey Spiritflower...

I don't know who shit in your cornflakes this morning.... but you are acting like a imbecile.

There is no need for you to fly off the handle at people just because you disagree with them.

You are deliberately trying to antagonize people who already have enough shit on their plates.

If you want to ask sincere questions and reciprocate with honest advice, then have at it....

If you want to be a useless jackass, then take your bullshit elsewhere, because it is not welcome here.

LMAO.....
Like a give a flying **** what you think either.

Its a tag team thing huh?

You guys need a life.

[logicalvelocity]

LMAO.....
Like a give a flying **** what you think either.

Its a tag team thing huh?

You guys need a life.

Fair enough - but why did you waste your time responding?