Hi all,
I've been seperated for 14 months and am still going through the divorce procedure. My soon to be ex is claiming that she is disabled due to fibromyaligia and her exact words are that " I cannot work because I am disabled due to fibromyaliga". I was married to her for 17 years and she refused to work the entire time! We struggled so much and I at times had to take two jobs just to put food on the table. So now she wants spousal support (very high too) and is claiming she's too sick to work. Yes, several years ago she was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, but it is so mild that I barely even remember her being sick! Perhaps once a month she might grumble that she was feeling sore but it still didn't stop her from going grocery shopping or from any of the other regular day to day activities. I am sooo fearful that she will get away with this because she does have an officail diagnosis. But she never did want to work and she doesn't now so she's grossly exaggerating this to get long-term spousal support. I really don't know how this will play out and I'm wondering if I should hire a PI to take pics of her in her every day life doing the normal things. Any suggestions?
I've been seperated for 14 months and am still going through the divorce procedure. My soon to be ex is claiming that she is disabled due to fibromyaligia and her exact words are that " I cannot work because I am disabled due to fibromyaliga". I was married to her for 17 years and she refused to work the entire time! We struggled so much and I at times had to take two jobs just to put food on the table. So now she wants spousal support (very high too) and is claiming she's too sick to work. Yes, several years ago she was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, but it is so mild that I barely even remember her being sick! Perhaps once a month she might grumble that she was feeling sore but it still didn't stop her from going grocery shopping or from any of the other regular day to day activities. I am sooo fearful that she will get away with this because she does have an officail diagnosis. But she never did want to work and she doesn't now so she's grossly exaggerating this to get long-term spousal support. I really don't know how this will play out and I'm wondering if I should hire a PI to take pics of her in her every day life doing the normal things. Any suggestions?
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