Some advice to all

[tugofwar]

Can you use this as evidence? What can you do with this information?? I tried to record a video a few weeks ago with a conversation and forgot to hit record...

[Mess]

I'm glad your ass is saved. Now I hope your wallet gets saved too, along with your access to your kid. Good luck. You've been pretty stressed out.

[dadtotheend]

Yes it can be used. Especially if he/she claims criminal stuff. Best to have a record of it. Won't stop the cops from arresting you but will help in the long run.

Keep it in perspective. It can be used but there's only a 2% chance that it will be used. I'm not saying don't do it, just realize that it's at best a lever to settlement.

There's only a 2% chance you will get to trial. No matter how conflicted you think you are, the odds are astronomical that you will not go there.

But keep presenting and moving/pressing that way and you will reach settlement. That is the best place to focus your energy. Not researching whether voice mail or email is allowed at trial.

Once you're in court, one of the best things you can do for your family is get the hell out of court. In the face of disagreement move the matter forward towards trial at every stage.

Truly.

[brigitte]

Recording is helpful, however keep it in a safe place. My EX broke in the matrimonial home 3 times. Took all my audio proof and much more.... ugly story. Find a safe. or safe place that no one knows for all your records, especially in High Conflict cases.
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[Mess]

Or post it all on youtube.

[NBDad]

...and post the link here for all of us to enjoy

[brigitte]

now that's a fantastic ideal..... very smart.
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