The judge didn't mention the farden factors at all. He simply said kid wasn't in school so support isn't paid. When it came to the cost for kid to go away he noted that dad's obligation is to pay for a school close to home, kids choice means kid pays more.
They still aren't speaking to him. It's been two years with the older one (I spoke to that one last year during a medical emergency and they never called back to see how their dad was doing) and eight with kid two. That one has some serious entitlement issues and believes both of us are out to ruin his ex. There are layers to the petty and immature behaviour. It is terrible for sure but when they were in his life they constantly abused him as they were told to punish him. It felt like he was constantly fighting them on everything including simply responding to a text message! I hate to say it but he is better off without that bs but I know he loves and misses them. I'm hopeful once they leave their mother's house they grow up but until then they believe poor mom and evil dad.
They still aren't speaking to him. It's been two years with the older one (I spoke to that one last year during a medical emergency and they never called back to see how their dad was doing) and eight with kid two. That one has some serious entitlement issues and believes both of us are out to ruin his ex. There are layers to the petty and immature behaviour. It is terrible for sure but when they were in his life they constantly abused him as they were told to punish him. It felt like he was constantly fighting them on everything including simply responding to a text message! I hate to say it but he is better off without that bs but I know he loves and misses them. I'm hopeful once they leave their mother's house they grow up but until then they believe poor mom and evil dad.
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